jie mei men!
it's 21st century oredi......shed tt shyness and take the
initiative to date tt cute guy u've always been wanting......
i pulled this off my fav girly websai (www.women.com) for a
start.......
no guarantee successful and highly dependant on wat type of guy u
are dealing with........
no harm using this for reference.....
im sure this will be welcomed by guys
and guys will definitely be more interested if gers offer to make
the first move............rite boys?
5 Great opening lines for meeting
guys
With your opening line, you're really just dowsing for attraction.
If the chemistry's there, the conversation will flow easily; if it
doesn't happen, forget it and move on. The trick is to not jump to
the middle of the conversation. You need something appropriately
light, provocative enough to get things started but subtle enough
to let him off the hook if he's not really interested.
Also, don't be afraid of awkward silences. If he doesn't walk away,
it means he still wants to talk. If you have the nerve to wait 30
seconds here or there, you'll be amazed at the results. Ready? Here
are five ways to start things up.
1. Say something specific to the event
you're at.
If you're at an art gallery, you can comment on the exhibit. If
you're at a show, you can give your thoughts on the band. Don't
weigh in like a debater with an opinion, just float your viewpoint
out there and open the door by turning it into a question: "Were
those guys great, or what?"
2. Talk about something that just
happened.
Sometimes nothing happens, but if it does, you can capitalize on
the opportunity. If the man of your dreams is waiting behind you in
line for movie tickets and the person at the ticket window pitches
a fit and storms off, you can take it as a sign from God that you
should turn around and ask, "So what was up with that guy?"
3. Compliment his attire.
If you're at a formal affair, this one's easy; it is, however, more
subtly effective when the dress is casual. Regardless of the
outcome, the look on the face of a guy who's wearing a T-shirt and
jeans will be reward enough when you walk up, smile, and say, "Hey,
nice shirt."
4. Act like you might know him from
somewhere.
Pick a few of the places from your personal history, then walk up
to the best looking man in the room and say, "You look so familiar.
Did you go to L'Academie des Beaux Arts in Paris?" (Or, you know,
wherever.) He'll say no and you can ask about somewhere else you've
been. Human nature being what it is, there's every likelihood he'll
start asking about places he's been, and won't that just be
cozy?
5. "Hi."
There's nothing like the devastating effectiveness of a simple
hello. If you're determined to talk to a guy, and at a complete
loss as to what to say, just say hi and let him do the rest.
