Opinion?

Ian SG

hi all, this seems to be a nice forum to discuss stuff so...

if a guy ( A )and a gal( B ) break up over a misunderstanding over another gal ( c ), and the guy after trying hard to get back his gf, fails, goes for the new gal,C. however, he, A, still misses the B alot. C loves A alot and all her family members like him too. B is still angry and refuses to communicate much wif A.

What should A do? he still loves B, and C he loves, but not as much as B.

something one of my forum members has a probelm wif. care to post comments?

cHeR|sH^LoVe SG

i dun think he should even go for c in the first place.. coz.. he loves B more..

|-|05| SG

ya loh he should just have explained to B in the 1st place….if cannot then he should wait long long till B calms down!

Yunhaier SG

A is trying to have the best of both worlds - sad to say, many times under the clouds of love - there is no such thing as best of both world. People hates making decision or sacrifices at their own expense - and will often land themselves in situations like A. Rolling Eyes

If A truly loves this relation with B, he wouldn't even accept the break as break - he will work things out. Furthermore, the fact remains that he went for C - which is exactly the source of problem that B sees in and it has confirm to B that C is the source of problem despite A possible attempt to ward it off as a friendship, etc. Rolling Eyes

During the relationship with B, A fell in love/crushes/etc with C - this shows that his love for B isn't that strong afterall. A fully satified man will never go for another woman. Well, A did.

My advice A need a period of time to reflect and ponder on his doings/feelings/thoughts/etc. He never give himself time to think and tries for the best of both world situation - this hardly work.

P.S: Are you so sure he loves B and not because he feel gulity that C came into the picture and he responded to her? Rolling Eyes

Cheers