Flirting is a form of communication that shows
appreciation, attraction, and/or interest. It is of the moment and
should be offered WITHOUT long-term goals! When you flirt, have
only flirting in mind. Don't think about what it could turn into,
because you should flirt for the enjoyment of putting your positive
feelings out there for someone to enjoy. Flirting should be genuine
and sincere, not flighty and irresponsible. The ability to flirt is
the ability to take control of yourself and have an impact on the
world! I can't stress enough that flirting is to make someone else
feel good about themselves. When properly achieved, it is healthy,
enjoyable, and refreshing for both people involved.
Now I suppose the greatest question is "How do I flirt?!?" Good,
because that's my next answer! Two BIG words: EYE CONTACT! I cannot
possibly cover this one enough. It is the absolute most important
part of flirting! Make eye contact with your target. Glance away on
occasion - this is very important because otherwise you'll appear
to be staring. Once you've established eye contact, smile. REALLY
smile - not the little grin you offer your teacher when you hand in
a test - offer a heartfelt smile. A smile is the primary form of
nonverbal flirting!
Other forms of nonverbal flirting
The Wink 
- There is only one rule for winking i.e. Wink Only Once.
This is very important! If you wink more than once, you're not
flirting, you're getting something out of your eye. 
Body Positioning -
Make yourself look friendly. Don't stand straight and cross your
arms. That says "GO AWAY!". Lean a bit and splay your arms and legs
about as if to say "COME ON OVER!"
Twirling Objects -
From drinking straws to ink pens and peanuts, twirling or fiddling
shows you're a little nervous - it's important to make your target
feel more comfortable and less like a target.
The Touch -
Feathery touches and minimal grooming gestures (such as flicking a
piece of dust off of a jacket) are a way to show interest. Use good
judgment here, as you don't want to invade your target's
"space".
Mimic body language
- Don't be a parrot, but if your target shifts to the left leg, you
shift the same direction (your right). It's another subconscious
way to set your target at ease.
*lecture materials prepared by
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