Originally posted by Daddy!!:
I am curious to know whether you find yourself ahead or behind your
ex-university or college mates when you come back to Singapore
after spending 8 years in the UK ?[/b]
Well it is hard to say. I took a very different path. I started
with an intention to teach or work in area (research) that can
better benefit the human... that is why i took up the free PhD
scholarship there after doing my degree in UK. Would have stayed
there if not for my parent over here.
When i am back, financially I am way behind. One of my poly mate is
now a millionaire. Others are married and most of them are doing
better then me. Beside that, i had change my goals from doing
something great to a more selfish one. That is to gain financials
freedom and retire by age of 45yrs, where i will decide where to go
from there. So itis more of catching game.
In fact, in term of a lot of things, I am way behind. But in term
less materialistic measurement, in term of mental development such
as thinking outside the box, creativity and way to do thing
differently, I think i have become more humble and are less
restrictive in my perspective and more willingly to get out of my
comfort zone. I felt that I had progress from a rather tunnel
vision to an open view, really get to see and experience what life
have to offer and live it to the max. Cos over there, the society
is created by the brit to suit their need. hence I have to adapt
and change myself to fit in. In doing so... u start to understand
their action and the how they think.
Some of the thing i observe there; The weather there might be
gloomy but the ppl there aint. I see old folk (husband&wife),
in their 70s&80s still very much active & in love. Driving
or using the public transport, travelling the country, enjoying
their time in the garden, etc.. instead of being dump in the old
folk home or trap inside their home. Despite the problem they face,
u can see that ppl are generally well manner and enjoying their
live, peaceful and a lot less hectic. The main reason why ppl work
is so that they can provide for their family. So if you have to
work more then 44hrs per week... where does that leave u? A family
that dun include u? I can carry on and on....
In term of vision, i would say I am way ahead most of my peers, coz
i now have a wider view.I'd saw and know what other countrys
(beside UK) have to offer and i dun really see the need to accept
what that is being offer to me if I dun like it. The world is
really big......