Originally posted by MamaRos:
The above is Ms. Kong's interpretation of what happened to her.
Anyone reading her article will feel incensed at the police for not
doing more. However, none of us really know what happened, do we?
Ms. Kong stated that ' Suddenly, a man shouted at me, claiming I
was trying to steal his kitten. Before I could utter a word, he
punched me in the face.'
Now if we are to visualize the scene, we have to conclude that two
things could have happened to cause Ms. Kong getting punched.
1) The man is mentally unstable, lurking around the area looking
for
someone to hit and Ms. Kong happened to be his target;
2) The man HAD words with Ms. Kong and she used insulting words
that
provoked and incited the man to punch her
My first train of thought is, if I was in Ms. Kong's shoes, I would
have called the police to complain about the kitten being tied up
to the fence. That is, if there is a guy hovering near the
fence.
Whatever it is, it is wrong for the man to hit her, of course. Ms.
Kong claimed she was punched on her face. In that case, based on a
normal man's strength, that punch would have caused some form of
bleeding, especially if the nose got it. Why did the man targeted
her face and not shoved her away? I suspect it was to shut her up,
possible?
All in all, as a woman myself, I would not engage in aggravation
with any stranger in public because I feel there are other
recourses I can take if I am to be in a similar case scenario as
Ms. Kong. Other than calling the police or the SPCA, I would also
call the hotline of New Paper.
IF, what Ms. Kong said is the truth and the whole truth, then she
should get a lawyer and fight for her rights. However, if the man
turns out to be a IMH outpatient, then she'll have to consider it
her bad luck lor.
Your public display of apathy is precisely why singaporeans will
look the other way instead of stepping forward to help.
It doesn't matter whether the aggressor owned the kitten; it
doesn't matter what excuse the man had.
In the first place, restraining a kitten is animal abuse. Any
compassionate human being would have responded with the same
instinct - free the kitten regardless.
Your preference of 'calling the cops' is simply passing the buck,
when at that point of time, it seemed a straight-forward matter any
decent person could accomplish, certainly something that did not
require police assistance.
When set upon by a deranged stranger making false accusations, why
assume him to be a mental case? Why draw this conclusion as an
excuse when he is more likely a typical street thug and bully? His
brazen claim that he is 'not afraid of the authorities' clearly
demonstrates contempt and utter disregard for the law, and certain
displays no psychotic behaviour.
My second thought is, what is that guy doing near her? Assuming
what Ms. Kong said about the guy accusing her of stealing his
kitten is true, can anyone here say, she kept quiet all the time
even as she attempted to free the kitten? And if Ms. Kong is just a
guai guai girl/woman, she would have retreated when she heard the
guy's accusation, wouldn't she? I mean, if faced with a possible
nasty man, the natural instinct for a meek person is flight not
fight, am I right? After all, her sole intention was to free a
kitten not to engage in verbal warfare with anyone, correct?
Why think at all if you continue to postulate and draw
speculation out of thin air? By making so many assumptions about
the writer, have you fallen into your own trap of making
presumptions? How a person responds to any situation is surely up
to what experience or how level-headed the person is.
There is nothing to conclude whether Ms Kong handled herself well
in the situation, if at all. The facts simply are: an attempt was
made to free a trapped animal. During the process, the would-be
rescuer was assaulted, and verbally abused, sufficient enough to
involve the police, a shopkeeper and outpatient treatment at a
local hospital.
Your entire 'mind my own business' approach bellies the apathetic
reflection of Singaporeans content to 'stay out of trouble' rather
than step forward to right a simple wrong.