wow nice and detailed... 
firstly, no u're not sprouting nonsense at all, it's always good to
have non-photographers look at the photos and give honest comments
because generally, there are more non-photogs that look at photos
than photogs!
u're mostly right, alot of it is due to personal preference. i dun
really have a style for bridal shoots, as opposed to my actual day
shoots, these two events are VASTLY different. so i'm still
figuring it out.
a few pple like urself have commented on the colour photos not
"standing out". what u guys probably mean, and the term for it,
would be the lack of saturation. it's more of a not here not there
kind of look, it's not full colour, not is it b/w or mono. i do
like desaturated shots sometimes, my favourite being of this series
is below, but i guess most aren't used to this look.

for this shot, i wanted a totally clean white sky, very minimal
distractions, the lamp-post perhaps the only nice complement, and
something very dreamy, foggy, pale, serene, not provocative,
INSIPID hahahaah.. hard to explain... but of course, the couple
might not choose to print it, but i'm ok with it. they're the ones
paying, which is wat's important.
so yes it's kinda tough to know wat is good, but i know it's always
best to hear out views from pple like u, thanx! 