Originally posted by spinsugar:
Just recalled something. A pretty girl friend of mine is 6
mths pregnant, has a significant baby bump. She's 25, but easily
looks 18 or younger..she's petite, but her tummy protrudes
significantly from the baby doll dresses she wears.
Unforunately, she's not too well-off, so she has to take the MRT
everyday incl peak periods.
- [b]In the past 4 mths, she has only been offered a seat
twice. Those seated usually pretend to sleep or read
ESPECIALLY right after they spot her. She recalled how 1 kind woman
spotted her thru the crowd, stood up to give her a seat, and
beckoned her to come over. A fit-looking chinese man in his 20s saw
this and tried to squeeze past the woman, but the woman gamely
blocked him using her body so my friend could sit! There were
curious/disgusted stares but nothing else.
- During peak periods, people often push her baby bump with
their bodies or bags to get past her without bothering to offer a
simple "excuse me". She tries to stand further away from
the door to avoid this, but it's not always possible.
- When the train is super packed, kiasu commuters sometimes push
the passengers at the door to squeeze in.. this often means that
the person in front of her will suddenly step back and
apply vaiying degrees of pressure on her stomach
(sometimes they don't apologize..some don't even notice)
- Once, this "uncle" practically body-slammed his
way into the sardine-packed carriage. (There were people who
couldn't board and were waiting around for the next train) In doing
so, the front rows of people fell on each other like dominos.. my
gal fren was standing in the middle.. she got hit so hard
in the stomach that her vision whited out for a few secs. She let
out a sharp yelp, but nobody noticed or bothered. She was
so disturbed that she alighted at the next stop and took a cab
home.
I'm really disappointed and, frankly, pissed off at some
Singaporeans' lack of civic mindedness and lack of shame. A few
instances would be understandable, but not if this happens every
other day.. come on Singaporeans!
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ok thats understandable.. i have being a witness to various
occasions here pregnant ladies were not offered seats in the mrt
station.. a common instances occurs in the 'seats for elders only'
where young kids/adults would just take the seat without thinking
twice and 'pretending' to be asleep... 