agree
Sometimes it's not only about the (outside) force. And NS alone
cannot 'kill' u, but only 'soften' u, they make u more obedient by
installing the "do or die don't ask why" program in your
brain.
The no. 1 killer in Sg maybe job/ career. No money, no honey, where
got babies?
*It is A combination of ALL that is 'killing' us... education,
housing, children, job especially, NS, IPPT /IPPT retraining + ICT
+ recalls, medical fee, bills, expenses etc etc... list goes
on.
That's why so many Single 30+ in Sg... these people are "killed" or
"dying" off. Have u hear of 'slow cooking the frogs' story?
Only those who got more money, can have babies and survive. The
rest are waiting for extinction or replacements by import of
INSTANT talents, PRs and families from China & india(whom are
still in the dark). 
Isn't this a great strategy 4 short-cut to economic improvement,
save time & money, correct or not?