Originally posted by Gazelle:
Does your mother/father enjoy having you around the house Or they
dont even care if you exisit? When you are sick, do you enjoy
having someone in the house to help take care of you?
I am not married, I pay for my own living expenses and I live
alone. I do not even stay with my folks. So why should they
complain. Do you have a problem with independence and independednt
people ?
So what If I am sick? Is it someone's else's job to take care of
me? Can I not haul myself into the nearby clinic to get my meds?
Even if I am really sick, I can easily call the ambulance and get
my ass to a hospital.
Not everyone has to live by the "Normal" lifestyle and "Normal"
rules. If its "normal" for you, don't mean its normal for others.
If you like your "normal" life, its what you choose and what you
like. Don't mean others have to follow suit.
BTW, it is in very bad taste you drag my parents into this
discussion. I can end the discussion here and now. What has it got
to do with my parents? You tell me!
Hoesntly I think it is always easy for you to make the above
statement because you are still young (I persume), healthy, and
have a bright future ahead of you. Do you have reason to believe
that you will still think the same when you are in your 50s or 60s,
when all your childhood buddies are busy with their children and
grandchildren
Do not assume so much! I am not young and its a known fact I am
not far from Sumiko's age.
Do not assume I envy people with kids or grand kids.
Do not assume that I judged my life based on your standards that I
wish to have grand kids by 40s and that having grandkids is an
acheivement.
Its all the standards that you choose your llife. Please apply to
only your life. Others might not want to live the manner as you
said. So do you mean people who are not married and have no kids or
old folks with no grand kids are failures? This is the implied
meaning in your message. So be careful what you say.
What makes you think the Sumiko dont think like you when she was
younger?
I do identify with her earilier writing for a while. But I do
not agree with her thinking most of the time. Do not always bunch
everyone together as if you know them. Her generation is vastly
different from mine. My lifestyle is vastly different from hers. Do
not assume (yet again) that being young has advantages or that
young people all think alike. That's only narrow minded of you to
lump people together.
What is the percentage of these type of people around?
You want stats, go can go stat board right. You need me to run
search engine for you ah?
What you are saying is very typical of how a 34 year old "spring
chicken" will think when they are much younger.
I am not a representative of any 34 year old. So please qualify
your statement.
I am only saying till now my personal observations. If you cannot
live with that so be it. Do not ever think your scarcism and your
insults are lost to me. Its only a matter of weather I want to take
you up and flame you equally or settle this with words. Without a
doubt, from above, its shows how narrow minded of you that you drag
anything in to prove your point that your "nomacy" is
definitive.
You are very full of yourself .. no wonder no one can discuss
anything with you.
Let me put this to you. If you like to twist things so much, there
is no point for me to discuss hence. Let me end on a good
note.
