Marriage should be seen as
two people happily coming together, if have to leave/divorce do it
happily & clear-cut.
Not:
Two People Happily coming together; SUE you big time with "Women
Chapter" when thinks got bad. 
Just too bad, Singapore have not update the Women Chapter. In fact
I fully agree on the responsiblities on kids, but disagree of other
fact inside.
Factors I disagree:
1. It should be base on "WOMEN" is a "recommended" custody parent.
It should be base on what support "That" parent can give. Who can
provide more for the kid should logically have the custody.
2. If "Wife" is working or having capbilities to work & support
herself after a separations/divorce, her "Maintenance" should be
cap/top limit. Because both should be responsible for their own
future life, not depending on the ex-husband or take reference from
what life-style was during marriage. What's gone is gone, One must
work or built his/her future.
3. Maintenance for kids should be clearly stated that "Both"
parents should pay how much. This is to clear general doubt that
"ONLY" the "Payer" side amount is for the kids. Actually the total
amount of $ available for kids is double of whatz written in the
order, basing on each parent have 50% responsibilities towards the
kids. Current practice only order that no cuatody parent to pay a
certain amount, never state the custody parent's amount. It's very
very easy to over-look or forget to "consider" the custody parent's
side.
4. Should asset be equally divided base on $ contributions first.
Then provide a sum/percentage for those women who are house-maker.
Sum/percentage should also be cap base on number is years of
contributions. Bearing in mind that House-Maker do have lesser
responsibilities/work when contributing towards the total asset.
The higher the total amount of asset the lesser the percentage, the
lower amount of asset the higher percentage.