SDU. is it effective??

Tuatau SG

According to SDU Annual Report 2003, the number of marriages between SDU members have steadily climbed "from 2,789 in 1999 to 4,050 in 2003".

Note: The figures seem to indicate the effectiveness of SDU, but they may also simply be due to a larger membership pool.

skyline63 SG

Mid - 30s and still looking ? SDU ? Come on ! It's already old age at that point. Reduce chance of getting birth. Beauty reduce close to dust. Of course will not get it ! It's the end of the it ! Unless he is willing to take divorce man who is in 40. Same age man at that age who is successful is rare ! And one question for her. Can she marry in months ? I am pretty sure she expect one year of dating to try out. So year pass one by one. She get older and chance get slimmer every year.

If I am a man in 35. Successful. Why can't I get one from VIETNAM ! Younger and fun. It's keep me in my youth. Not those some age as me ! Keep me old and to the grave !

limahkow SG

i noe one real life case of a divorcee who went to sdu (read one of my posts in tis sg forums)

Tis man is a divorcee who has been divorced for many years and about 47 years old and he is always out on the prey for young gals in SDU and how does he do it? He participates in many dancing classes and he is like an extra help in the dancing class as he has been to so many and so called can know alot of steps to the various dances

and recently he got to know this young unmarried gal at the SDU and this gal just latched onto him like a leech because she thot that he had alot of assets no knowing that he does not have many assets and basically is a b as tard in character...

He has had many galfrens after his divorce and he had cohabited with at least two of his ex galfrens and not only that , he is old already and yet can say that he expects his wife to bring a drink for him when he comes home and is basically an MCP although he is not capable in earning money

I got bad impression of SDU people because basically some of them though not all are hard up cases..the guys are desperate and only want long haired gals, fair etc capable not knowing that they are

1. old
2. facially challenged
3. does not have a good career

some of the gals alre also like that, expect the men to be rich, own a car and these SDU people are very "cliquish" dun like to mix with other people and only laugh at their own stupid jokes

all this i know personally because i was invited to some functions and they really behave like that, think the world of themselves

if you forumers want to know more can tell you all more

limahkow SG

they din take into account those people who already got bfs or gfs when they joined and when they married, tis stupid sdu think its the success of SDU
i personally noe a fren who married a lump of s h i t from sdu

dragg SG

how is he or she like? can elaborate?

limahkow SG

not capable never mind like to say other people and also he is sad to say "quite facially challenged" n not only that does not speak properly and can be very blunt

tis is a true story and my fren said she simply got married because its was time for her to do so

dragg SG

the worst thing is to get married for the sake of marrying

fishieee SG

my friend also did that, she know this guy from speed dating then within 2 months they decide to get married, 6 months later they register for flat and now they are renovating their flat and this oct they are doing the chinese custom feast. she say she marry becos it's time for her to get marry, wth man! she's only 22!!!

skyline63 SG

Sometimes. In life. You look it is for the sake of marrying. But they don't feel it.
You see it that way. But they don't ! They want things fast. they want each other. And You just want to be alone. SO people leave you alone.

It's your choice. Life is short. Got people died at the age of 45 Got people died at the age of 80. So.......... . Fast don't mean it's bad !

limahkow SG

its true and i cant stand her husband,he can say things like

"limahkow, your job is in the sunset industry already"

he does not know the fact i earn muchmore than him and although in sunset industry can earn big facts, for him? got retrenched twice and not earning much and dare to comment on me

limahkow SG

u see the way they quarrel, like wat they say "everyday one small quarrel, every few days one big quarrel"

and now i told my fren "raw rice cooked to real rice already" how to divorce

but her hsb really damn one kind, really hate him to the core

Tuatau SG

Originally posted by limahkow:
u see the way they quarrel, like wat they say "everyday one small quarrel, every few days one big quarrel"

Quarrelling is quite common among couples as long as they "from make war in the living room to make love in the bed room". It may not be the best form of communication, but it is still communication. Have known some couples who could quarrel frequently over small things and still have lovey-dovey making up sessions later in their own world.

However, when they stop talking to each other that's usually where the problem starts.

limahkow SG

maybe lah, but i think i see his face so kena sai, all thots of making out also want to make me vomit

anyway, its hard to tell who is wrong or rite and every small thing, she wld go and call her marder in law and complain

and every thing she cannot solve with her husband, she wld involve her parents in

and now good loh, they wld be moving in with her parents and all the more, she wld have more things to complain to her marder in law and father in law

her hsb really damn one kind, ask him to go for makan with everyone in the family with his and her family, he wld say "lets go" but if ask him to pay, he wld like say "dun want to go"

he is just a free loader

skyline63 SG

limahkow

Your friend should threat him everyday for divorce. Because he don't make a good husband. Always say in front of him. How much she can get by sue him after divorce. Enjoying the monthly allowance. Enjoying the good days of finding new man in the family.

Everyday say until he cannot take it ! Hahah!
Always speak of woman's chartor in front of him. Print it out in the computer and keep it all over the place in the house. Let him feel something is wrong. His wife is on a plan to run away. Looking at names and planning to change the SON and daughter name to others !

Then tell him the problem. If he start to talk rubbish.

1. Always complain about my job. How come his pay so low ?

2. Go out eat, he better pay or pay more in the end !

limahkow SG

i think even if she sues him also wont get much money and because he is such an asshole, he accused me behind her back and said that i was trying to drive a rift between his wife and him

and worse thing was he sent me a very nasty email on the first working day of the new year and i became so cheesed off i din even want to contact my good fren and when she suspected smthg was wrong, he admitted that he sent me an email and when she asked him for it, u noe how tis bastar d reacted

he refused to show it to her and claimed that he deleted it already, i was so fed up and din want to have anything to do with them until my fren forced me to show her

and i finally showed it to her, she blew her top and made a big fuss to her marder and farder in law and wat else can they do

the marder in law said "he is a grown up and wat you expect me to do, KILL HIM"

she said "yes, please kill him"

he really is a hopeless bas tard, it had caused such a rift between my fren and me until the 20 yrs frenship that we have is down the drain

he is just eyeing her money thats all, and you shld see the way he "por" the inlaws, ask him to pay for things he says no money but ask him to go out with his inlaws and they pay, he wld be the first to go

skyline63 SG

But I do believe family matter should be solve in the family. You are her friend. But her family members or relative. How to solve for her ?

Family matters, outside people cannot be involve. This is way. When you are married. You want your husband's friend to tell him what to do ? There ? It's a double-edge sword. Crying or Very sad

For your friend somethings she have to deal with her own. If you make them divorce. In the future, your friend may just blame you for it ! Saying you are the evil woman.

limahkow SG

thats exactly wat i feel, family matters shld be solved within the family, like i got major pblems with my hsb, i wont tell anyone at all not even my family

but she tells me everything and when i try to be objective, she says "you dun understand, one" etc, of cse as a fren, we try to lend a listening ear

but tis b astard accused me of interfering in his life and send me such a nasty email you noe

now i so fed up that i have decided not to have anything to do with him

and almost everytime we go out with his wife, i am the one who pay and he really is an a s s hole

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