NS: the cause of a lot of breakups and heartaches

last SG · 2005-03-29T00:01:07+00:00

sure or not? all they care about its LRI and such sh|t....Even wan get off must clean rifle, clean bunk, clean this clean that clean his backside..then get O...

starblue SG

many breakups seem to happen when guys go NS. it is almost certain that if you are going NS, you've got to gird yourself for a breakup. i've always heard my guy friends say things like "i scared she'll leave me when i go NS." it's kinda sad this is happening.

what do you guys have to say about this?

FireIce SG

i dun think so
it's an excuse than a reason

take it as a test on the rship

shade343 SG

I would say: thats sad isnt it? Laughing

icyprincess SG

well, if the relationship is strong enuff, you have nothing to be afraid of. It will withstand the test of time.

If it falters just because the other party is not there, then it is not worth it to go into that relationship anyway. If you really love someone, you will find a way to make the r/s lasts Wink

When there is a will, there is a way. And absence makes the heart grows fonder anyway Laughing

i.c.y

Rockhound SG

then its the gerl's responsibility to assure her bf that they'll be together forever...

and she better be mature too and dont take his absence as a reason to go loose...

icyprincess SG

if she does, she is not worthy of his love.

and the better he finds out and accepts this fact, the better it is for everyone Laughing

I do not believe in deluding ourselves.

i.c.y

shade343 SG

When the cat is away, the mice will play... Laughing

Gordonator SG

it's not as though u are going to stay in camp for the rest of your 2 years. u get to book out on weekends what. somemore now SAF very good already, can use handphone every night. what more do u want? Rolling Eyes

i believe it is this feeling of not be able to see your loved ones making u miss them that will make u treasure the relationship more. people tend to take eachother for granted when u they see eachother everyday.

SGpork SG

if its strong...

i dontk think.will break up also lor..

Rolling Eyes

fudgester SG

If anything, the guy needs all the emotional support he can get from the people he cares and loves while in NS... and that includes his girlfriend. This is all the more important in the first three weeks of confinement.

I've had some of my friends saying that their girlfriends didn't seem to understand that their guys would no longer have the time to spend with them as they did before NS. I say those girls really have no sense of understanding and empathy for what their guys are going through. Somehow they get the idea that NS is something like OBS - tiring but fun. Crap.

And don't give me this crap about how girls can have the licence to be loose while their boyfriends are away at NS. I say dump those loose women - that's what they are. Those guys deserve far better than that.

Rockhound SG

correction...ahem..now ahem....two weeks...

Lingos SG

NS wasn't the cause breakdowns in my past relationships..
it was more like.. i realised what morons they were.

Exhibitionist SG

Oh well...sometimes playing the field is more fun than being faithful...heh..

icyprincess SG

Originally posted by Exhibitionist:
[b]Oh well...sometimes playing the field is more fun than being faithful...heh..[/b]

it will cause more harm in the long run.
pls dun get into a r/s if you are just looking for fun. it is not. it requires a lot of work and faith...

i.c.y

the Bear SG

if a relationship cannot survive a small thing like NS, what are the chances it will survive big things?

BrUtUs SG

Lingos SG

Ah… maybe it’s just that people mature and change.. i mean seriously it’s some high school relationship that couldn’t make the transit into the real world.

commonsense SG

NS not bad wat. give u a valid excuse to break up with a girl if u r oredi sick of her.

oso easier to two-timed girls lor. tell A u got guard duty tis weekend then go out with B. then tell B next weekend guard duty then meet up with A.

deathscythe99 SG

Rolling Eyes

macjoe SG

Guess who's really two-timing who?

Girls don't have NS and they have 7 days in a week to have
mature guys pamper them.

And what do NS guys do in 7 days? Pamper their rifle.

NS really make guys immature and even worse, most NS guys think NS is
good!

No wonder girls who are smarter and mature faster avoid NS (and NS boys)
and go for men outside! Finish your NS then talk.

Put it simply - NS makes Singapore boys less intelligent than the girls! Can't blame them for not choosing NS boys.

And the world and girls are moving so much faster ahead. And the NS guys?
You say lah.

If I were the Defence Minister better still PM, 1 year NS for both guys and girls! Why 2 years for guys only and 0 years for girls? 1 year each lah!!!!

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