Don't pick on the ladies who got their jobs.
First of all , look at yourself .
Did you know that self loathing and low self esteem can radiate out
from a person in body language?
I will give you a few tips :
1. Read a book on job seeking - esp ones with bodylanguage inside
it. Always useful
2. employers like to hear some "potential" and they have a right to
pick and choose. RESEARCH WHO YOU ARE WORKING WITH.
3.You are competing against degree holders who have no jobs.You
should be able to answer this question yourself " WHY SHOULD THEY
HIRE YOU". Write your answers down.
Key words : "able to work under pressure", " hardworking" , "
willing to learn" .
If you are stuck on a technical question of the job , the words " I
don't know " is not an option.
4. Your army experience can always help out in job application - I
helped one of my friends to draft his resume . In the army , you
have picked up the skills of interpersonal communication ( you have
to talk to your platoon what) , the endurance to withstand any
pressure ( like jungle training) , critical thinking ( decision
making if you are an officer) , conflict management ( i.e. happens
when ur platoon people want to give someone a blanket party and you
soothed them down) etc. My friend himself have sent out more than
10 resumes and got only 1 interview from one employer. So job
market is not that good. You have to bear that in mind.