That's the problem you see, as long as you are going to define
your fairness by a point at which you do not have any physical
liabilities from your gender, you will obviously never be happy,
let alone think the world is fair.
Your point is as good as me pointing out a whole set of male
specific health problems and saying that girls have it easy? In the
end it all heads nowhere because both sides have their own problems
to handle. Nobody every said pregnancy was simple, or the like,
anybody who has a mother would know.
What drives guys nuts is that while we are expected to grit our
teeth about the tough issues in our lives, we have ladies like such
barging in and complaining about how easy NS is compared to their
problems, and how unfair life is for them. Please, if you haven't
been there don't open your gap. If we don't downplay your female
problems please have some courtesy and stop yabbering as if it is
the end of the world and how great and easy it is to be a
guy.
Try living shorter, more stressful and dangerous lives, the reason
why we have less biological liabilities is so that we can make sure
the biologically liable and whiny gender can survive. If we don't
make so much noise about our part of the bargain to keep the
species going, please make things easier for everyone by clamming
up. 
