Will u let your daughter date/marry an Indian guy?

last SG · 2004-09-22T10:45:15+00:00

Due to some concerned PMs I decide to close this topic. Please discuss stuff objectively

SnowFlag SG

if one day, your daughter says she wanted to marry someone whom u know is a gangster, as a parent, would you not stop her?

If one day, you know that your daughter go to sex party with her lovers, would you not advise n stop her.

If it is not the business of the parent, then who will help their daughters?

oldbreadstinks SG

i'm not comfortable with the idea of my daughter marrying someone of a different race, not just an indian
but like what some of us said , if he loves my daughter and can provide for her, i see no reason why i shouldn't let them marry

unless he's malay\muslim
my reasons for this is simple ,malays here are almost 100% muslims, and for my daughter to marry one she would have to follow a religion that she would not believe in and give up her own, even though religion in a personal matter of a personal choice Rolling Eyes Neutral

Troy437 SG

Dun think so…unless the Indian guy follows our religion completely and can speak our language…liddat maybe can consider…

paperduck SG

my mother friend's daughter marry to a ba-yi-sing..got bao tao 1.

she nearly heart attack

superspecies SG

y?? both also indian...1 from the north the other from south?

gerrykoh SG

Preferably not, rather she remain single

superspecies SG

wats wrong with an indian man?? they are tall & handsome with sharp features

choco B SG

I don't see any strong reasons why she should not... no drastic changes need to be made, unlike marrying a Muslim

The more important factors to consider would be his values and that of his family's, and his upbringing. Alot of families are modern-ish, regardless of race, and have similar lifestyles and values. So really, they're not that different despite skin colour.

nww16 SG

i will never allow my daughter marry an indian..i strongly oppose to inter-racial marriage...that is not the way to promote racial harmony... Surprised

Aulf SG

If so .. u'll have an FBI agent in ur family ...
a case of F*****. By. Indian Mr. Green

elindra SG

I'm getting married to an Indian guy.
Yes, my fiance is Indian.

My parents have no objections to him whatsoever. In fact they love him so much more than my ex chinese bf.

To my parents what is most important is the character and personality of the person and not the race, and ultimately my happiness. I guess it helps that my parents are english ed and they are pretty open minded about things like these.

The problems I faced were actually from my relatives, but I guess they didn't protest too much since he speaks chinese and hokkien fluently, he looks more eurasian than indian if he doesn't get under the sun too much and he has a good job.

Personally, if I have a daugther I wouldn't mind at all.

burntan SG

I won't mind my daughter marry to an Indian man, but I do mind my daughter marry to a muslim even if he is a Chinese.

My cousin brother marry an Indian girl years ago and they are living happily ever after.

burntan SG

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skyfoo SG

i think this topic is damn stupid and racist. y an indian? no point asking this qn becoz it is personal.

Qitai SG

As long as he is a good man and family background decent can liao. Rest can be anything, Africian or Mexican also can.

chunyong SG

well, cos indian men tend to booze alot…always see them buying beer. got some stuff i dun wanna say, somethings is wellknown and is better left unsaid bah…

Heartlander SG

why many Chinese girls marrying Singaporean of indian origin?Blame the whole problem on the Singaporean Chinese men who have high ego, kiasu and kiasi and they prefer to import their wives from aboard! The Singapore Chinese girls must take part of the blame, they are unrealistic, not down to earth! They want 5 or 4 Cs right from the start of their relationship!As a man even if I have 10 Cs I will not look for a beautiful Singapore girl of that characteristics!

Lastly blame the whole mismatch on NS,which brought many young couples apart and force many who are looking for love during that tender age into different field of adventure!Girls are pursuing their studies while men are at the training camp learning how to use the word 'fxxx' while training how to defend the nation under great pressures!when they are back, they use it on their family and girl friends, all precious relationship gone with the wind after two and a half years stint!

gerrykoh SG

Tell her the disadvantages of doing so- must eat lots of mutton, listen to Indian music, give birth many times, living with in-laws & putting up with lots of relatives coming to visit, strong incense & body odour etc

sgdiehard SG

This is a racist topic and to me it is not worth reply. Pls don't post any more remarks that can be construed as racist.
I don't want my daughter to marry an indian but there is no need to go out shouting indians have body odour..... Rolling Eyes

chunyong SG

the smell is caused by some cream and/or oil which they apply on their body. they do not stink without it.

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