Hi, I am a newcomer here, I am a Chinese mainlander.
Firstly, it is good to see that Singapore also has such nice
people! Second, I support a healthy and friendly relationship
between Sinagpore and China.
Under the general situation, when most of the world (especially
when the US governed by neocons) have "anti-China" trends.
Singapore is unavoidable to be neutural! It is too small to aviod
influence from big countries. Currently, Singapore's security and
prosperity largely depends on the US. As the US can use many means
(such as military, economical, political...etc) to influences
Singapore, if it feels the needs to do so.
In the case of your vice-premier's visit to Taiwan, my explanation
is that it is a show to Americans, to let the the US's neocon
believe that though Singapore is Chinese majority country, it will
stand on the US's side if any conflicts happen between the Mainland
China and the US.
IMO, this is a wise option, becoz in case the war break out in
2006-2008 becoz of taiwan's declare of independent (actual
modification of their constitution), most of people in China don't
want to see Singapore also being embroiled. After all, we have same
ancestors, just like the UK and the US, and China also learned many
things from past Sinagpore's success.
As far as I know, most of my friends have a friendly view on
Singapore. And
we admire that as a Chinese majority country, Singapore can have
such big economic success. I think the current mistrusts are just
temporary, we deserve a much better relationship when China becomes
stronger and stronger!