I admit, that's when it gets emotional and personal.
But for the leader who has to take care of the larger picture,
getting emotional and making rash decisions is a big no-no. He has
to make the decision that has the best interest for our nation,
which may involve endangering the hostage.
I know it sounds cruel, and I'm not particularly fond of this idea
myself
, but this is the real world. As a leader, one must
take care of the greater cause.