Well, subudei if you don't want sweeping labels to be applied to
your girlfriend, then don't apply sweeping labels to who you
consider SPGs.
Why do you protest, now that your very own logic is turned on
you?
You may not have realized, but with you and your case, no matter
how you may think you may have gotten the upper hand, the upper
hand, is always on the other foot, and that does you little good.
Congratulations.