Dating an NS guy

ejal SG

I’m currently in contact with this guy who is serving NS. He’s having BMT at the moment..I wanna ask if this progresses to a r/s, how hard will it be??

FireIce SG

treasure the weekends~

more like he would worry...........

zulkifli mahmood SG

His worries will be more to thinking like this perhap…will you be faithful to him still when he is not near you most of the time…About BMT its chicken feet.

jojobeach SG

Depends on what you want from the relationship.

If u are not the clingy type, then it'll be easy.

If u are the type who need a lot of attention, then it'll be hard.

sgdiehard SG

I’m currently in contact with this guy who is serving NS. He’s having BMT at the moment..I wanna ask if this progresses to a r/s, how hard will it be??

why you want to develop the relationship? he is a nice guy, your type, cool, caring, loving....? and what has NS got to do with this?

If you cannot tahan only meeting him in the weekends, not all weekends, then how would you live in the future if he were to go overseas to study, business trips?

Be sure you know what you want and what you can give to him, he has only weekends, and he wants to find the right person to be with him. don't waste each other's time.

ejal SG

Definitely cuz there’s a connection between the both of us…i’m just not sure what happens in NS (like how the training is like & stuff) so I want some advice on maintaining the relationship. I have no issues with not being able to see him often because for me, he’s worth the wait.

sgdiehard SG

"because for me, he’s worth the wait." he is lucky to have someone like you. Training is tiring, and when he is out on the weekend, very likely would want to see him, his schools mate would want to have a gathering, and he might want to catch up on some soccers matches, so when you meet him, give him valuable time! Best of luck.

ejal SG

Thank you Smile They’re able to use phones at night right?

sgdiehard SG

Thank you Smile They’re able to use phones at night right?

...if there is no night training and if he remembers to switch on the phone. don't need long conversation, just a few sweet words in SMS will remind him you are with him.

ejal SG

Alright thanks so much Smile

charlize SG

ArJoe SG

Try to spend more time with him during weekends.. and be understanding about spending less time with him

ejal SG

Try to spend more time with him during weekends.. and be understanding about spending less time with him

Okay will do! One more question....what happens after BMT? Will there even be more lesser time for us?

ArJoe SG

Okay will do! One more question....what happens after BMT? Will there even be more lesser time for us?

depending on which vocation he is posted to

ArJoe SG

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ejal SG

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ArJoe SG

Haha glad to hear that

Acx1688 SG

TS, if you wan 2 progress 2 relationship, get to know the person more and better before goin 2 next step...

Be frens 1st, no need 2 jump to r/s so fast...

If both of u know each other well enough, you will move 2 nex step automatically...

ArJoe SG

Yeah mutual understanding is the key to develop a stable relationship

Elysiakok SG

Very difficult to date ns men. Because they're in camp all the time. And they'll get very suspicious of their girlfriends, and wants the girlfriend to always be there for them. So if you date ns men, make sure to make them feel loved all the time, because their heart very fragile during this period.