Financially helping a friend who once rejected me

Joo Matts SG

Change your mobile phone number and forget about her.

charlize SG

23ispolo SG

if u so willing then ok loh

so whats the problem?

He's asking if he should help her by givng the money...

23ispolo SG

I just need some opinions. Lately ive been helping a best gal friend of mine with money. Ive started giving her some small sum every month as an allowance for her as she is financially drained.

She knows i love her but she rejected cuz she told me she didnt wanna risk losing the friendship. That was 5 years ago. And recently, she did told me she likes me more than a friend but not to the level of bf. she even call me her special guy friend as im her only guy friend she trust with all her heart.

Im helping without asking anything in return. I did so because i love her is one thing. Secondly, she needs help and she is a best friend so i cant bear to leave her behind with problem. And she is single again so she cant ask her ex bf for help.

Ive never hated her or hold grudges against her for rejecting me. She knows that ive always respected her decision even if it hurt my feelings. I know im not gaining anything by doing this for her. But i love her and im ready to sacrifice things for her.

This is the power of love.

sgdiehard SG

This is the power of love.

Love is the most abused word in life.

Faithlovelife SG

She probably told you that she likes you more than a friend, because of the $$. Forget her. Waste of your time, money and sacrifice. You're better off finding a friend or partner who appreciates you for who you are and not the $$.

Sandytoh947 SG

I always follow my mum's advice - never a lender nor a borrower be

sgdiehard SG

I always follow my mum's advice - never a lender nor a borrower be

your mum is a very wise lady.

charlize SG

Gctwmrtmoewh SG

I know I am stupid

Acidcat SG

Say if u become her boyfriend .. She will sure expect a bigger pay cheque than what u are offering ... And at the side , she will have semi guy- boy friends giving herspare monthly allowances ... U like this kind ah ?

BishyBashy SG

power of love!

AasonBalancer SG

this is new 0.0

Rookiecookielim SG

Shit. One should never bring money up in friendship, and even if you are in a serious relationship. It ruins everything.

If she's not ready for you, you two will never be able to be satisfied, even if you two were to be in a relationship. Are you sure you are in love or just attracted to her? Its time to let her go. After all, 5 years is a long time already. If she really wants you, she'll.come back for you. There are other options out there. Just let her go.

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