Hey jojobeach thanks, I love that you can spot part of my flaws.
I'm not really a cheapskate because I don't buy contraband always,
I only do that when i'm bored at work and decided to walk along
geylang at the same time buy ciggarette.
Since you mentioned gullible I think I am..I don't think I'm
that good looking.. Maybe I don't care much about my health since
i'm smoking but I do have good body since I work out and I'm the
lean type. Today I just realize that the only one who compliment me
is either hostesses, prostitutes, my family members or a few
strangers, so I think that dosen't count. The one good thing about
me that I know of is i'm a thinker, i'm not necessarily smart but I
just like to think just about anything every single time. To be
exact I'm a introvert, I'm a thinker and I'm shy and I don't really
like to socialize with people but I don't really avoid people I
just like being alone. Maybe that's the main problem.
The reason I post here is because I'm really depressed and you
guys don't know my identity so yeah...Please find my flaws I need
opinions. I have done everything I can think of to be a better
person..I'm trustworthy, honest, I protect people I know little of
just because they choose to be nice to me once..What I mean protect
is i protect them from bullies when i'm in ns..i'm anti-bullies and
I once hospitalized one guy and have to personally send him to
hospital since i'm a driver..lol...and please don't say i'm violent
and aggressive because im not at all, and I don't even dare hurt
peoples feelings. I'm just anti people who do injustice....hope to
see some replies. My english sucks please bear with me...
Being an introvert is not a problem. There's some introverts and
extroverts in all of us, it's a question of how much socialising
one prefers. And many of us do enjoy some solitudes.
Since you tend towards introvert, you are looking for love in
the wrong place, aka Facebook. Extroverts are attention seekers, it
will be hard pressed for introverts to give an extrovert what they
need.
Join other types of social groups that appeal to introverts like
yourself. Go solo backpacking, volunteer to help the needy. All
types of altruistic activities will get you connected to people
like you.
Consider a holistic appeal. Unless a girl sees you fighting off
bad guys today, they won't know you're a guy with a noble heart.
It's like winking at the girls in the dark.
First, you need to clean up your image. Quit smoking. Smokers
stink, from their breath to their sweat. Smokers produce lower
quality sperm. Smokers are at high risk of health issues. Nobody
wants that.
So you work out, but you also smoke. That's oxymoronic, not
smart.
Second, live a life others want to be part of.
If you tend to sulk at home, and blame the world for your shit
life, it's likely girls will be running away from you instead of
towards you. Nobody likes a negative viber.
Work on your self confidence. English is not a marker of
success, stop shining a spot light on your weaknesses.
Your self-confidence will go up after you've clean up your
act.
