For the wake, you can go in the afternoon. Or if you have
other friends going, then go in a group. Please do not go
view the departed in the coffin. Also if it is a taoist
ritual, then you can try to get a few pieces of the silver paper
that they fold to burn to the dead. When you reach the block
where you live, burn it and step over it (like over a stove) before
entering into your apartment block.
thnks...what should I wear/not wear to the funeral?