My husband regularly has meet up with his friends and wives.
Everytime, their wives or gfs will look at me and I look at them.
Only when I find something to talk in attempt to start
conversation, then they answer me. After that they quiet again. The
cycle is the same everytime got meet up. Those can click, they
stick to each other and chat comfortably but then, other time, they
just look at me. Even when got one time, I sit right infront of one
of the wife, she will play with her hp. Seems like I everytime have
to find topics to say.
Got one time go bbq. I tried not to sit one corner and act anti
social, so I walk around, trying to find anyone to sit and chat.
Then end up I no choice, tired from walking around, sit down and
start playing my hp. My husband busy entertaining his friends.
Why like that
???? Should I give up going out with them anymore ?
Because you take it upon yourself to play the part of the good
partner. I do not think it's neccessary to go out of your way to
please others. If you cannot click with someone...just accept
it.
You can choose not to attend. Your partner should
understand.
