So do his girlfriend
a favor. Send her all the evidence of his cheating. Texts,
photos..and where you had sex with him.
She wasted 3 years on
this crook.
He will insist you
seduced him.. but dont worry. If she gets angry at you,. let her
know she can keep that piece of trash. --> Be the bitch you want to be. Since
you are so naive, don't listen to idiots/feminists who speaks of
revenge and getting back while they have nothing to loose.Tell him
you are not interested,change the number and never ever speak to
him. All the things above can be used to sue you for defamation.
None of these forum trolls would help you out if this came to be.
It's for sure a bitter experience, learn from it and move
on.Amen.
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Hello. You sound like a guy who wishes the girl to take lead in
the rs. And I understand where you are coming from since you are a
guy. (Guy tend to take the side of the guy right?)
--> Not the wussies. I told
you he's cheating on you while none others could figure this out
from this limited info.Infamous arm chair general and feminist
jojobeach could only think of flirting.
1. I have been the one who always put in the effort in the rs
that I feel like this is a one sided rs. Why? I was the one who
confessed to him and he said he was afraid that he will lose me (if
I didnt like him) if he confessed to me. He used to send me
pictures of cute animals and such, tell me about his past and send
me photos of himself when he was younger, now he just stopped. PS
And, I will do up handmade gifts that take me weeks to do because
he wants to celebrate every monthsary. He just dont.--> U are really naive and has no clue how
such things work. Imagine a cute rich guy coming to you and saying
everything you said to the guy,would you let it pass?Especially
when it cost you nothing?Don't act so saintly, you would not too.
That's what happened here.
2. I am always the one who plan dates. Day 1 till now. ALWAYS. I
am the who suggest what movies to watch, what to do, where to go.
--> That didn't give you a
clue that he didn't want you?
3. Goodness me, I am selfish? You probably have never been in a
rs. Let's turn the tables. If you have a girlfriend who is hardly
in Singapore, and even when she is in Singapore, she works till
10pm or later, how would you feel? Out of 30 days in a month, you
see her for let's say 5-7 days inclusive of
weekends. --> I don't count
days like you do.
4. Have you been at work? Because I am a working adult, I know
how things go. Logically, if you think about it, do you have last
minute meetings and not be informed about it till when you are
about to leave the office? Uh huh. Would you not be informed that
your staff would be flying down to Singapore hours or a day in
advance before he/she actually touched down in
Singapore? --> Silly you,
thats the excuse to meet with others in this case, though such
things can happen.
5. I am the one who wanted to take up dance. Have you not
seen a dance before? I would recommend you to
something called 'Youtube'. Google 'waltz'. It's the 21st
century, not 19th. And what exactly is your definition of
touch? A guy/girl touching the other
party's private parts huh?--> The question was would you mind other girls
touhing him?Seems you do.
6. Would you change your wardrobe if your girlfriend CONSTANTLY
say that your shirt is too tight for you and it shows
your tummy etc? YES RIGHT? My boyfriend will CONSTANTLY
remind me that my skirt or dress is too short. FYI I am
standing at 170cm. The clothes in Singapore are made mostly for
peitie girls or have you not noticed? --> Wow nice excuse to self
justify.
7. I dont even have my own personal life anymore. I cant even
meet my friends as he dont like that I hang out with my guy friends
since he claims that I will give them the wrong idea if I hang out
with them one-on-one. He hates my girl friends because they never
had a good impression of him. He hates that I sign up for the gym
because I am already so skinny. So tell me what am I supposed to
do? CLINGY? I am more of CRAZY now. --> Leave the guy seems to be most easiest
option.
Come come. Round of applause for you. Do you need a standing
ovation?
I admit I am naive, stupid and blind. Are you happy now? I paid
the price already, have I not?
He dumped me. There's no need to leave him.
