Dear madm Tan,
Your writing skill is super, however you did not tell us what
are the ''' school issue''.
In your lengthly explaination of your ''dire situation'', you're
telling us everybody and everything else is wrong, except you. The
school is wrong for causing the ''school issue'', the school
principle is wrong, the CEU is wrong and the police is wrong, etc,
etc, etc.
I remembered when I was in primary 3-4 I was bullied by my mat
classmates all the way when I went into the elite class. (Me old
last time no EM3 such thing.) Even in pri 5-6 elitie, I got
dispecised by my form teacher. However, I still got straight As
with 3 stars for my PSLE.
You get what I trying to say? Let your child go thru the
''school of hard knocks''. She will get stronger in the process.
Staying at home will not help her develop her interacting
skill.
Send her back to school pls for god sake.
Not every child is suitable for the cookie cutter school system
in SG. Some children thrive better in alternative school settings.
And no it's not ok to allow your child to be bullied at school.
You are only enabling the bullies and perpetuating the problem.
Bullies themselves are often psychologically damaged and should be
dealt with swiftly.