move on or what?

last SG · 2014-02-15T20:10:09+00:00

The best way to get over someone is to cut off all contacts and stay away.Clinging on to the "friendship" makes it harder to move on and heal from the hurt o...

SMB195G SG

thanks for helping

23ispolo SG

so basically, there's this girl i like. we always called names, insult each other so on. we even studied together for our exams for the past few years. we were really close.

but this year, everything changed. our convo became awkward and we were not as close as before. it feels like she's ignoring me. just two days ago, we walked out from sch together and somehow she asked me why i became an anti-social cus i was ignoring her (thats what she said).

i dont really know what i should do. does she really like me back or she said that just to keep our friendship alive?

Just like me... But, mine is shy and not so close to me...

Summer hill SG

Valentine's day is coming.

Maybe someone asked her out? (faster than you)

SMB195G SG

looking at her tweets, no one asked her out yet

Edbert SG

so basically, there's this girl i like. we always called names, insult each other so on. we even studied together for our exams for the past few years. we were really close.

i dont really know what i should do. does she really like me back or she said that just to keep our friendship alive?

so you felt like she's ignoring you, and she said that you ignoring her?

ah tweets may not accurate, so many people now mainly girls move on to instagram, so their twitter basically only for watching

SMB195G SG

yeah. for me it feels like she's ignoring me but she said that i'm ignoring her.

and her tweets aren't really for watching. i know her well and it justs that we aren't really close anymore.

life is so complicated

Edbert SG

i feel you bro

anything to do with texts maybe?

gwynified SG

The only way you can clarify your doubts is probably to thrash it out with her. Like tell her everything you think so far (omit the confession for now, maybe later) and see her point of view. The relationship can be salvaged if it's done well. But it really depends on your courage now.

SMB195G SG

im trying but her best friends (i know them) are always with her so it's really tough. i was so close to getting exposed

Edbert SG

are her best friends positive with you?

SMB195G SG

are her best friends positive with you?

yeah. they're my friends but i dont really want them to know

Edbert SG

err valentine is coming and robocop is out alr, you got a good timing dude! ask her to movie! don't wait until other dude had oredi asked her..

charlize SG

How old are you two?

12? 16? 20?

jojobeach SG

Hrrmm. So u got ignore her or not ?

23ispolo SG

yeah. for me it feels like she's ignoring me but she said that i'm ignoring her.

and her tweets aren't really for watching. i know her well and it justs that we aren't really close anymore.

life is so complicated

Aiyoh, I know that feel, bro... Very honest, whenever I talk to my crush (look at my thread to know about SV), it's really all just schoolwork nowadays... Sometimes all these things make me mad, since I like her and others come telling me to stop looking at her! I'm not even so close to her, just very modest friends...

SMB195G SG

err valentine is coming and robocop is out alr, you got a good timing dude! ask her to movie! don't wait until other dude had oredi asked her..

u think i have the chance to be with her?

Hrrmm. So u got ignore her or not ?

i did not ignore. im always the one who started the convo but she said i keep ignoring her.

wow tat really sad especially urfriends telling to stop looking at her. for me, my friends were like "eppp you like her ah?"

23ispolo SG

wow tat really sad especially urfriends telling to stop looking at her. for me, my friends were like "eppp you like her ah?"

At first, they were like that... But now, they tell me that, since they want me to stop being so good to SV... I have wanted to ask her out, but she has friends who care for her, so even if I did, I know the answer... Or she's just too shy...