I got a bf but because i'm fat.
My bf didnt get to turn on by me. In fact, looking at my rolls
of fat on my body. He got traumatised and never get erection.
Instead, my bf went to porn and pcc to release his -_-
I get very upset because i thought my bf stop and quit porn and
pcc for me. And he had been lying to me he won't pcc and porn
anymore because he have me.
But end up, he didn't.
What should i do? I'm terribly upset and depressed. I feel he
broke the promises and trust. On the other hands, is it my fault
for causing him like this?
Maybe i should go on diet/liposuction and hopefully my body dont
turn him off? Or should i just break up with him? Sigh i already
sign HDB with him and made payment already.
Why do things become like this? Do i deserve all these?
I'm just sad. Please don't shoot me.
Your bf just told u straight about the fat on your body? For
one, this whole relationship needs both sides to work together for
success.
For the guy, like one of the above posters said, you dont expect
yourself to be free/available every time he feels like doing also.
I rather he watch porn and relieve himself than to go wreak havoc
with other girls outside.
On the other hand, for your well being and both sides'
happiness, I recommend that you lose the excess weight and fat on
you. Just don't go for liposuction/slimming pills/treatments, they
won't keep your fat off for the long term. I can make things easy
for you, but there are no shortcuts for long and lasting weight
loss. Let me know by PM for help in this area.