Hi,
I have mentioned that i have someone in mind and i
thought that he would not be interested in me. Therefore,
when he started to stand closer and behave weridly.. i was slow to
notice until a few weeks later. After recalling the incidents, i
started to feel uncomfortable with him. I have no ideas when did i
drop hints that i like him as i only see him as a friend and
respect him as my senior.
Ever since the start of this semester, i have not spoken to
him. I can't see myself as a good friend with him anymore. I
feel disrespected as a female friend when he came on too strongly
for my taste. Furthrmore, we only know each other for 4
months. I can sense that he may want to talk to me this
two days but i ignore him and as best as i can be
with courtesy. Ya it is also werid that we were once so
close for 4 months and we are suddenly not talking at all.What do
you want me to do? I feel awkward too.
On the other hand, he may have felt hurt and told some of his
friends that he was rejected due to his age ( he is 10 years older
than me). Come'on , i am not really an agist. If not, i would not
be your friend in the first place. I'm pissed with people who
think i have rejected him due to his age as they have this
impression that i'm an agist. This affect my working relationships
in group.
Frankly, most girls cannot accept guys with an
age difference of 10 years. I'm thankful for his affection but
i can only treat him as a friend. I don't think guys can
accept rejection well. He didn't directly confess to me
and i can't tell him nicely why i reject him. Somehow i feel
unnecessarily bothersome by this situation.
What should i do?