Taken for granted? :(

melodymaker SG

Thank you! :) Yes she's just my friend, but if we're to court my future girl I'd definitely can identify the signs from here

Well, do all this things for people who appreciate it and not those who ignore. Wouldnt it waste your efforts.

jojobeach SG

I am glad she never did left the safety of her house to meet up with you downstairs.

Just leave her alone.

melodymaker SG

Yep of-course I am never forcing her to do anything, It should come from within her mind/heart. Safety first and how much she trusts me matters as how much I trust her Otherwise I’d look like a desperado which I certainly don’t want to lose my dignity to someone who I just know for a year.

“I am glad she never did left the safety of her house to meet up with you downstairs”

So within your ill corrupted mind you suppose I might harm her by doing this?

Don’t you ever judge me Mister, you got no right to judge a person without fully knowing them. Remember that there are still good guys out there. You make the nice guys in singapore look like a bunch of desperate blokes that want to take advantage of woman. You sick mind of a man

Genie99b SG

I don't know about your culture. But in our culture, and between friends, when we do nice things gfor each other, we only hope for a "thank you".

For you, when you give you expect more , that's what we call "ulterior motive".

Stop being so calculative towards people you care about, but if that's what your culture is about.. then I am glad I'm not part of your culture.

Dude she has a pt......maybe she prefers to keep the relationship via the internet...it doesn't matter if you want to gift a person don't expect anything in return...simple. You're saying she thanked you via the internet instead of personally. Maybe she doesn't want to take the friendship further.

melodymaker SG

Exactly that’s what I had figured out from this, but at least I tried something out of the box and I am happy that she’s accepting it instead of calling me a creep or anything so I am proud of my efforts. From now on I’ll just be cautious as to what to expect and what not to expect but that makes me think ” should i even try?” unless i find someone that i really really like so that i can accept any shit that she throws at me. Yep I’ll just stick to internet texts to her from now on.

Genie99b SG

Yeah i think uve got it figured out. As for even trying…thats rly yer choice. Just be mindful that making frens ovr the internet has more barriers as opposed to someone u meet in rl.

Good luck.

Ockz SG

Hey bro.

Did you.

Ever.

Tried.

Asking her to try dating?

I don't think she understands that you are doing all these to court her. And as much I wish she's telepathtic and understands your real intentions, she will forever treat everything you do for her as what a super best friend does.

Confess to her, and be prepared for whatever happens next. Rejection or accepting your feelings, at least you will know whats going on in the future. Good luck buddy

melodymaker SG

Thanks Ockz! Yes i did, But i didn't really call it a date to her but more of "Do you want to hang out?" She would sometime skip the topic. So i know that she wasn't interested But I do remember when she wished me on my birthday she wanted to ask me out for drinks, she just spoke about it but it never happened and I don't want to remind her, that would make me desperate haha, but i know that she does try to think of going out so let nature take it's course! her job is getting hectic and she's hella busy these days, work until late night knockout at home, poor thing.

Hey bro.

Did you.

Ever.

Tried.

Asking her to try dating?

Confess to her, and be prepared for whatever happens next. Rejection or accepting your feelings, at least you will know whats going on in the future. Good luck buddy

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