new gf might be posted overseas

redname SG

What you mean...both of you have been going steady since childhood?

no lah, she's in early chilhood industry :)

zulkifli mahmood SG

no lah, she's in early chilhood industry :)

Ah I see......yeah there are international schools overthere for early childhood and above. My niece study in an international school in Thailand. Well, she may look at it as a place to gain experience and using it for her career advancement later....ah nothing to worry bro...she will see Singapore still as her home. I thought she was going to be posted to Australia, the U.S. or Canada....if that should be the case...she might migrate there perhaps...with you that is.

Aljack73 SG

really so sad!! you sould also go with him and try job there for yourself. Otherwise, this will make your relationship a littebit weak.

BadzMaro SG

which scares me cause this is my 1st relationship and i already know sh!t abt an ordinary one and now a more dificult one comes along :(

Think of it as baptism under fire. lol.

But I think you should have a serious discuss with her and see how u can make things work between you two. Dont give too much expectations yet you must also give assurances on your part.

Genie99b SG

ok lar can be done the r/s i had survived 1 year just using caling cards….these days u have webcam np de lar… just spend more time with her now …gl dude.

Craptalkone SG

mai thu liao! 30yo you both not kids anymor! marry her. then ask me be your pre wed wed photogrpaher. after your baby full month shower i also be photgrpaher, themn she preganant i also phtoogtrpahre , then rom i also phtoogrpaher.

then after that she can go voerseas all she want.

sgdiehard SG

up to her to choose career or u.

if give up career, u yang de qi her ?

why don't you quit your job and follow her?

charlize SG

Nobody can live on love and fresh air alone.

Demon Bane SG

This is a sticky situation....long distance relationship won't work unless both of you guys are equally committed .... I think u must get her to understand your concerns....talk to her...

speakoutfor SG

Hi,

I just got together with my GF for 3 months, althou there were rough patches, we worked things out and things are getting better.

today she tld me that her company is sending her overseas for 2 yrs to start something there.

I'm afraid this can be a big hit and affect our relationship.

we just started not long ago and things are stable yet and moreover, we are in our 30s, not young already, these 2 years might really be very important

Maybe she is testing you. You suggest to her la, tell her to postpone this overseas thingy for another 2 years to give this relationship a try. You must fight for what you believe or suffer consequences of LDR.

But she is mid 30s, right? So her market value is pretty much diluted. You don't have to worry about losing her overseas unless she looks like nicole kidman.

If she still insist on going overseas, you should seek other girls. No point sticking to her. Most overseas posting are not great anyways. I've been posted to UK and Cambodia, I still feel lonely there. Yeah at first it is exciting to see the way of life there but after some time, you get bored and lonely. But if she is posted to Australia, you should be worried, there is a lot of available migrant single guys. I lost my ex gf when she got posted to Australia to another migrant guy.

Craptalkone SG

But she is mid 30s, right? So her market value is pretty much diluted. You don't have to worry about losing her overseas unless she looks like nicole kidman.

You are wrong, me see got hole can already.

M the name SG

Differences between being single and being in a relationship : http://memecollection.net/differences-between-being-single-and-being-in-a-relationship

EmilyMinty SG

There are many ways which you guys can see each other. Like Webcam all these.

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