I got this friend, he non-stop bug me advice about this girl. I
ask you guys, what you think?
OK my friend had a bad backlash from his ex girlfriend because
he was a workaholic. At times he forget to bring his phone, when
his ex watsapp him, on something, it took him two days to reply, or
when his ex make an appointment, he could not make it due to work
responsibilities, his ex would take revenge on him by doing the
same at him. Until the day came for the break up so it made him get
very anxiety problem…like the way he bug me for advice.
So here is the story:
1) This friend due to work stress, he switch job to this
MNC factory. There he met this sweet girl, 6 years
younger than him. She’s 26, he is 34. He works late then one day
she sametime him (office version of yahoo messenger). They would
talk all sorts of things till late night…this continued for
weeks.
My friend got interested and ask his colleagues if she is
single. One co worker confirm she is single and encourage him to go
after her.
Then one day, she receive two bunch of flowers…my friend got
nervous, he wondered if it was a secret admirer. He ask one
colleague if its from her boyfriend. His colleague (same one who
assured him), just shrug and say it could be because she just
graduated ? Or a secret admirer?
He ask me, i also shrug but i told him to be cautious, because
girls just don’t simply receive bouquet of flowers at the office,
unless its from her boyfriend. So he gave up.
2) 6 months later he quit the job because of job stress and
can’t get along with boss. He thought all ties were cut…but then
this same girl watsapp him to ask him how is he? Then later, she
ask him, where he is working…my friend thinking not wanting to give
out info so freely (sly of him) ask her to come out and have a
drink with him (he call it yam cha session la to make it not look
like a date) so he can tell her. But she ask him to come by the
factory to say hi to everybody. But he say he now start new job at
new place, too far from Tuas la. He waited..but no reply.
3) So today, he forgot to bring his phone (left it at home)...he
call me justnow, bug me again. Ask me if let say she watsapp him to
make an appointment, he took one who day to reply, would she take
revenge at him? (Next time he wastapp her, she will purposely take
2 or 3 days or never reply to him: like what his ex did)
First question:
I told him if she did means, she is not mature to be his gf. But
what you guys think?
Second question: Do you think a girl that receive two bunch of
flowers at office, means she got boyfriend already?
THird question: What is she trying to do? Is she gaining
attention? Or she is dead serious about him? Or he is
imagining?
Your friend a total loser !!!!
Whatever the reason the girl whatapps him interest or just being
friendly , your friend just totally screw it !!! It is stupid
to not to tell her where he is working now - message is you is not
someone i am close to or can trust !!! .. that a big pail
of water pour down on her. ....... of course in the end she
end it by come visit us ... .to end it.