Hi, does anyone have any tips on how to stop looking/ogling at
girls? The reason I am asking this is because I have this problem
on keep looking/ogling at them when they appear. I know this is
normal but it annoyed many girls such as most of them notice that I
keep looking/ogling at them and get annoyed like they would keep
looking back at me with either a normal/blank face expresson to
check out if I am ogling at them or they would blink their eyes and
look away when we get into eye contact, some common ones which I
have seen them frequently (in school, neighbour or in work place)
even look up at me when I appear and make a frown annoyed face then
look down when I was talking to my friend and laugh which I happen
to look at their direction where my friend is standing as if I am
trying to get their attention or they would bring their male
friend/boyfriend along and purposely hold hand and kiss in front of
me and the girl would keep looking at me to see if I got
shocked/surprised (which I did not) and the guy would also look at
me as well. I know they are annoyed by me looking/ogling at them
but I did tried some ways to avoid this and it doesn't seems
to work such as I tried my best not to look at them, keep looking
down the floor while I am walking and/or surrounded around them but
I can't, it is like I still want to look up and look at them. I
also tried to get addicted to something such as my playing my
handheld game, mobile phone but it still doesn't work, I still look
up and start to look at them constantly. Does anyone have any other
tips how I should stop looking/ogling at them?
You cannot STOP looking at girls.
You can only control the WAY you look at girls.
Your lack of self confidence affects the way you interact when
you lock eyes with girls.
You are coming across as CREEPY. That's why girls find you
annoying instead of feeling flattered when you "admire" them.
Girls are used to guys looking, the problem is when a guy stares
lecherously or creepily.
When you occasionally lock eyes, give a small nod and a smile
with confidence.
If you quickly turnin away shyly and trying to "secretly" look
at her later, people will think you are mousy. A mousy guy is
simply not attractive at all.
Try to increase your self confidence, when you do, girls will be
looking at you instead.
