actualy if can sell house so clear cut...jus sell n arange with
lawyer to divorce n no need hav anyting to do wit him..lead ur own
life..
like u say ...u spend time cooking learn tings...study or wat
ever...
time will rely heal...
now u sure alot emotions and canot decide and canot do anyting
but keep thinking n sad...
u need to get over it yourself
no one can help u
maybe sudenly u can cry, sudenly u can laugh..morning u think of
dump him, hate him, afternoon u think of salvaging relationship, at
nite tink of begging him..come back..
but all thes keep going round n round...need to be decisive and
then tell urself u make this decision u feel better..
It rely takes time lar..
take sometime to think about it
dun keep to urself too much
tell your close friends ...tok to them...can go drink abit but
dun drink too much...at first when u tell friends, friends will
sympathise wit u...then tell u dump him..but they r not in ur
shoes...then u will keep repeating same ting, n they gt tired
...they will not tok to u...if closed ones will stil talk to u but
end up scolding you....and u just try to think over it
yourself...wat u should do....don let others afect u...cos u are
the one in this relationship 7yrs ...not others...so whatever
decision make, most important is dun regret ..if fail just move
on.....if go through is a bonus...dun pin high hopes...
in life, anyting can hapen tat is out of your control....able to
accept it and move on is the hardest thing to do...but after that u
be stronger..
can go bowling and slam the ball and pins to FA XIE..u sure get
strike n high sccore ...treat the pins as ur husband n the
woman..
by the way u got no kids and if u wan alimony u mus aso justify
why u need it ...since all along 7yrs u no need (this is if ur
husband dun agree n contested u) ..judget will review on this..
so ask for lawyer first
Best u got pictures of them very close then show the laywer ask
what u can get MAXIMUM claim from it...
if not beneficial then consider tok to ur husband n physco him
giv u ahigher percentage of the house...since all along u been
payin for the house...remmeber to tell ur lawyer that aso..that u
have been paying for alot tings when he is jobless these yrs..
for me now, i still also very sad...but life stil goes on...only
just tell myself i mus lead my own life, be independent...and need
to keep acept reality...n try to tink of best option to
solve...
i tell myself i wana make myself better ...i went gym training
and exericse to slim down n look better so that more confident aso
good...and it makes me feel better..
just do the tings that i like to do...
go shoping buy prada& LV..
haha
Live for myself and not live for him....
all along i tout wana set up family wit him..now realy changes
everyting...big shift to my life lor..haiz...but still life goes
on...
hope u can let time heal your wounds also..
now is toughest period...after this you will be fine...
ohhh by the way i will visit guanyin temple when i free
sometimes to pray..
its realy zun..i qiu qian rely damn zun lor..haha but of cos
canot keep believe too much lar..
our life is in our hands...i jus pai pai for safety n jus hope
no more bad tings hapen only...
everything u do is karma....i now only wait for retribution to
befall on them..
and hope good things hapen to me...no do harmful things hurt
people...conscience clear...
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