hi all,
there's this female colleague
who is chasing after me. the problem is that her fiance is in the
same company. at first i try to brush it off but her advances are
getting stronger and it's starting to freak me out.
even the hr manager asked me
about it recently as she got suspicious, and i told her to adopt a
wait-see approach.
all along, i always maintain a
professional attitude towards her, but somehow, this happens (when
i talk to her, it's purely work, and i only talk to her when work
requires it).
can anyone advise what i shld
do now? shld i just sit it out and wait for her advances to die /
fade off slowly? it hasn't come to the point where i can just go up
and tell her that i hv no feelings for her, because if she got
offended, can't take it etc....she might just blow the whole thing
up and i'm the one to die regardless whether i'm innocent or
not.
i know her fiance as well, and
always respected him a lot due to his good personality and working
style, and we're on very good terms with each other.
pls help! can't sleep the
whole night as i'm afraid to lose my job.
tks (if things spiral out of control, i might consider quiting
even though it's really non of my fault; the girl keeps making the
moves and i didn't even flirt with her)
rodon.
Put a fake photo of a girl on your desktop. And claim you are
attached.
Make sure the girl is very chio and sexy.. so that co-worker can
have a good reason to back off.
In front of that co-worker.. pretend to call your girlfriend act
very loving and kiss kiss the phone lah.
You don't have to tell your co worker off.. just give her a
graceful exit off the stage.
