My suggestion: don’t, it may lead to one or both
of you being hurt.
And my 5 cents of advices as a
counsellor:
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1 cent A violent
partner is unacceptable in any relationship.
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2 cent <!--[endif]-->It
is a mistake to think that you can “save” an alcoholic or a
gambler.
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cent <!--[endif]-->Someone is married
is not available.
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cent <!--[endif]-->People who are
separated or recently divorced are not quite as
unavailable.
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5 cent <!--[endif]-->Someone
who is married to his/her career in not available.
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