lost in life

MemberABC SG

hello. currently i am serving my NS.

i kind of feel that i am getting more and more lost in life already. No direction, no motivation.

sigh.

Summer hill SG

hello. currently i am doing my o-levels.

I kinda of feel like i am getting more and more lost in life. no direction, not motivation, no plans for my future.

sigh.

But anyway TS, you can voluteer to try a variety of jobs

Sandy17sandy17 SG

No direction?
Set a goal in life.
Since you are in NS, consider setting a goal in NS.
Do you want to be an officer? Etc.
After setting a goal, work hard for it.

MemberABC SG

i am in unit already

don't know what to do after NS. kind of feel that i am getting more and more stupid too

Sandy17sandy17 SG

What is your interest? ( soccer..etc)

DailyFreeGames.com SG

hey bro, dun worry... that's how MOST GUYS feel when they go into NS... you're normal, dun worry too much. you need to get some motivation about NS, then check this series out... http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=M32WoCBlW_A

Their training so tough until the passing rate is 10%... hahaha... they go walk until blisters so bad when take out boots, blood gush out like tap water... hope this makes you feel NS alot easier life.

When I watch the video, I want to join sia, so challenging... NS so boring.

MemberABC SG

What is your interest? ( soccer..etc)

i used to have a number of interests but i have no or little interest in them already ever since NS

MemberABC SG

When I watch the video, I want to join sia, so challenging... NS so boring.

well for me NS life is ok, just that it didn't turn out what i expected it to be, especially after i enter unit. i gave myself too much high hopes.

thanks for the video

troublemaker2005 SG

hi i am currently jobless. everyday nothing to do. but i am not lost.

MemberABC SG

thanks guys.

anyway, currently i am in a r/s for a few months already. recently i felt that the feeling is getting weaker and weaker already, and i don't know why. what should i do?

perhaps i shouldn't have entered a r/s at all in the 1st place...

troublemaker2005 SG

complete your NS first. after that if you got any relationship orobklem you can post again

MemberABC SG

so what i should do now is, just complete my NS? how about my r/s?

troublemaker2005 SG

a few months is relationships? your own mind at work or ppl just wannamake friends only

jojobeach SG

thanks guys.

anyway, currently i am in a r/s for a few months already. recently i felt that the feeling is getting weaker and weaker already, and i don't know why. what should i do?

perhaps i shouldn't have entered a r/s at all in the 1st place...

Some people can handle both, some people can only handle one.

Since you are unable to handle both NS and a R/S, you will have to forgo one ( R/S)

After your NS, you will have to think about Career... if you can't handle Career and R/S.. again you will have to forgo one ( R/S)

Until you are able to handle two at the same time.. then only will you be able to have both.

R/S require a lot of time, effort and maturity to nurture it...

So untill you are ready... for your own sanity sake.... focus on what's important one at a time.

troublemaker2005 SG

its not a relationship, only a few months only what relationship?

Geradline94 SG

Hey, I would like to share my personal experience regarding a life changing opportunity I had. I too was rather unmotivated,before I helped out with this freelance project Im in now la. Thankfully, I was given the opportunity to seek personal development in myself through some training programs they offer,so things are so much better for me now..

So mayb for urself can also find a PT job or anything that can motivate u, monetary wise or like me having personal development to find some direction for urself :) That should be good!