By reading your other posts, I'd dare to say you've suffered
from some sort of emotional/psychological problem.
Tell you what? You were so wrong on many levels. I wanted this
to be closed but your post caught my attention because it was so
funny. I started having a crush on him more than three years ago,
mind you, but he didn't really notice my existence until recently
when I got chance to join him in the same project and then spent
some time alone with each other, so it's absolutely not his honesty
that made me fall for him and it's pretty much that he didn't
really find me sexually attractive back then, otherwise he had done
something ages ago already. And he did tell me he likes me and
asked me to be his gf before he asked me to have sex, mind you
second time. But it's not difficult to figure out what the liking
and asking to be gf were all about, I'm no longer some naive
innocent girl. Again, I'm not going to explain why but it's not at
all my guess, it's the fact and I had my way to have him admit it
in the end. So it's me who was always direct and honest, not
him.
Also I wouldn't be turned off if a guy tells me immediately he
finds me sexually attractive, my colleages do that all the time and
I'd take it with a pinch of salt if I'm not interested. But I would
find it hard to digest if a guy starts off with loads of lies, mind
games and all before he says it. Then I wouldn't call it
honesty.
And ok, I don't act as a good girl, by this lable, I just wanted
to say I have my morals to hold onto. Who doesn't have their 'bad'
side? Didn't I say something about being naughty in the bedroom?
Let a guy show me his love and respect, let me fall for him, then
he might get an eye opener.
Don't bother yourself with those guys TS. They don't think with
the head upon their neck but the one down there! They measure their
manhood by the numbers of girls they have bedded and can bed. Many
guys who moan that good girls are conservative are either have no
luck in finding a girl in between who makes them proud in front of
family and friends yet has the power to witch them crazily in bed
or got turned down by the girls which to them, is an insult ;).
Some declare they don't want a virgin because virgins can't satisfy
them in bed but deep inside secretly crave for one. Those guys are
just selfish, they only care about their needs and desires, they
never care the sh** out of yours, they aren't worth your time,
girl. They may be happy now thinking they are the centre of the
universe, but one day, when they look back at what they call
victories, they will probably face a devastating consequence or
suffer the pain of loneliness and question themselve what they are
actually looking for in their love life. Those guys are
pathetic.
Of course being a sexual naughty guy isn't a bad thing though as
long as he has the ability to control his animal side
appropriately, as you said.
I personally think you did the right thing by walking away from
that guy, TS. If you are not into a nsa relationship, you just keep
your doors shut like what you did and only open to the one who
deserves what you have to offer ;)
