By reading your other posts, I'd dare to say you've suffered
from some sort of emotional/psychological problem.
Tell you what? You were so wrong on many levels. I wanted this
to be closed but your post caught my attention because it was so
funny. I started having a crush on him more than three years ago,
mind you, but he didn't really notice my existence until recently
when I got chance to join him in the same project and then spent
some time alone with each other, so it's absolutely not his honesty
that made me fall for him and it's pretty much that he didn't
really find me sexually attractive back then, otherwise he had done
something ages ago already. And he did tell me he likes me and
asked me to be his gf before he asked me to have sex, mind you
second time. But it's not difficult to figure out what the liking
and asking to be gf were all about, I'm no longer some naive
innocent girl. Again, I'm not going to explain why but it's not at
all my guess, it's the fact and I had my way to have him admit it
in the end. So it's me who was always direct and honest, not
him.
Also I wouldn't be turned off if a guy tells me immediately he
finds me sexually attractive, my colleages do that all the time and
I'd take it with a pinch of salt if I'm not interested. But I would
find it hard to digest if a guy starts off with loads of lies, mind
games and all before he says it. Then I wouldn't call it
honesty.
And ok, I don't act as a good girl, by this lable, I just wanted
to say I have my morals to hold onto. Who doesn't have their 'bad'
side? Didn't I say something about being naughty in the bedroom?
Let a guy show me his love and respect, let me fall for him, then
he might get an eye opener.
if he's just a random guy i agree u should totally forget about
him. but if u still can be friends so why not give him a second
chance? i meant if he still holds onto u and wants to be with u
then why not? unless he insists in a sexual rs then this man isn't
worth it, don't buy into it. even a jerk if he really cares for u,
he would think about what u want, not what he wants.
source: personal exp