Exactly what is it you want out of this contacting business ?
Really.
Dont bother hiding behind the "friend" label. You are fooling no
one but yourself.
You already know more than you need to know about him today.
There is no need to seek acknowledgment from him at all.
What did not happen, happened for a reason.
I think you need to be more self honest and ask yourself if you
are currently unhappy or unfulfilled in your current relationship.
Apparently , your husband is not doing enough to
stop you from thinking about another man.
There is more than the story and you are not telling us.
If its not this guy, you'd be thinking about another .
You cant solve any problem by seeking more trouble
elsewhere.
16 years is a long time. If you had wanted to friend him you
could hav done so long ago why wait till now ?
TS edited the threads already. to make those reply look like fools
and wrote. TS is a person who like to hear good words, sweet pity
words. now you should know why people like ho kong kee can be a
professinal beggar. he tok cock to people who like to listen to
sweet nothings, listen to crap that brings them to anotehr world
without having to take drugs and medicine that may have side
effects.
good medicine taste bitter, kind polite words will take TS
nowhere near any solution. face the reality the pain and move
on.