I recently had the first one-night stand of my life with a
friend whom I know for a few months ago and we started
out being colleagues at work.
She's 9 years older than me and a divorcee with two
young kids.
I'm a single man with a steady girlfriend.
It started out that night as a gathering between both of us
and after a few hours of hanging out, we checked into a budget
hotel room. Boh of us were present at the lobby counter during the
checkin and she even provided her IC for the staff for
verification.
Both of us are 100% sober as we only had coffee and we had
a chat for more than an hour in the room about possibly having
sex, and if she's ok to the concept of us having a relationship
even though I have a steady girlfriend.
To all that she was ok for us having sex and she even requested
for me to use condom for protection which I did.
Before penetration, when we were making out, I stopped and even
asked her if she's still ok to continue and I made known to
her that I can't promise her any committments or have a
relationship with her. To that, she's still ok and we finally
proceeded with the deed.
After the deed I felt guilty and she's unhappy because due
to my guilt I have now made the experience bad for her.
I'm worried because there have been numerous cases in
Singapore of women regretting one-night stands and then crying
rape, and the guy having to be imprisoned, caned, and losing their
careers, reputation and their life.
I'm not well-versed in Singapore law despite being a citizen all
my life. Can somebody help provide constructive advice for me? How
can I handle the aftermath of this one-night stand? How can I
protect myself from her crying rape?
?????u were raped?remeber!!u consented to her!and why are u
crying here over the deed?how can a person be called a male
possibly make a noise here like an emotional person?are u some
kinda butch in here?u dont have a dick or what?
actually she and the law is the last person u shoud worry
about.the real problem lies with you and your traumatised state of
mind.have u tried dancing on stage gangnam style?it certainly
will help folks like u.try it!
