just got rejected again how?

chia93 SG

Can someone give me some advise?

Is like there is girl one year my junior amd I like her, but then she rejected me saying that she will only make me hurt as she don’t know how to love someone. But I really love her amd wanna get into a relationship with her and if possible even marry her.

Cos of that I’m very stressed up as i.don’t know what to do, cos I know that she has a little feelings for me as she’s been posting on Facebook, Twitter saying thing like, she can’t love anyone. Also she’s somewhat similar to me in the sense like family problems and relationship problem.

Cos of this thing it is affecting me greatly I don’t have the mood to eat or do anything proper. And just today, I took my stress out on my friends, just cos they said they’re tired n can’t do project.

Someone please do help me, or I may end up losing all my friends. Is there any suggestion so that I can be together with her? I don’t mind if I may end up getting hurt. I just wanna be with her. Cos I do understand how she feels as I’m similar to her

Rudolphsaez SG

Try to approach her..

speakoutfor SG

It takes two to tango or two hands to clap. Here you are clapping and dancing and she's not. So what do you want now?

She is not interested, so let go. Unless you want to physically rape her or something. Look, most difficult thing to do is to win other people's heart.

Super.kumantong SG

The game in picking up girls is not to chase girls but to attract the girls and the girls You like to come to You.

One of the way is to let the girls that You like, that You like them, and then it is to let them chase You.

Dalforce 1941 SG

If she is not interested, it's better to end the relationship.

Maverickz2009 SG

It is very sad to see many guys having problems with boy girl relationships.. The Pick Up Girls Blog should be back again and teach You guys the secrets in letting girls chase You. It was deleted few years back , it ought to be back again.

jojobeach SG

Can someone give me some advise?

You guys need to stop putting the cart before the bull.

Why do guys falls in love BEFORE she have any feelings for you ?

Control your feelings .

If you have good feelings for that girl... wait till she give you the ok first ,, the green light , then you start the " Head over heels, love her deep deep, want to marry her, want to spend the rest of the life with her, shes the one, I want her baby"... thoughts .

Reserve these ideas AFTER both of you become a couple.

And guys.. please... have some standard... not just run after ANY gals with a vagina ...

There's a lot of friendly girls out there... but it doesnt mean she wants you inside her panties !!

Desperado and acting all sad puppy is a HUGE TURN OFF for gals.

So I repeat guys... HOLD YOUR HORSES... ask her permission.. if she say yes.... proceed..... if she say no.. NEXT!!

And don't forget to thank her for being HONEST....

STOP getting angry that she rejected you... she is being KIND when she tells you her true feeling... so you don't waste your time and efforts and unwanted disappointments.

troublemaker2005 SG

there one girl i don;t like but she alwasy pester me. makes me sick!

so how?

angel7030 SG

there one girl i don;t like but she alwasy pester me. makes me sick!

so how?

How? hmmm...ahhh...go reservoir and settle it once and for all, no more sickness, no more girl, no more pestering..

troublemaker2005 SG

How? hmmm...ahhh...go reservoir and settle it once and for all, no more sickness, no more girl, no more pestering..

wah, just cum back start kaypohing my affairs. jealous arh?

angel7030 SG

I am here not only to end your misery, but also mine, cos once you are gone..

StriveOn SG

hush, hush, the 2 of you, dont fight.

Regarding TS problem, there are 2 possibilities.

1. She likes you but do not want to commit into a relationship

2. She dont like you. All the 'same as you' situation amounts to just being friendly.

For Case #2, forget it, move on.

For Case #1, you can continue to show your love, but do not overdo it until you become a pest to her. Give her some room. Watch her body language. Sometimes being persistence can win the girl. Sometimes she may change her mind. (Most of the time, she will not) But if she is really not into it, and you can feel it too, then, forget it, move on.

StriveOn SG

Nobody hurts you.

Only YOU can hurt yourself.

maxsee SG

This is not call love la...this is call infatuation...u need to know someone very well before u can even love him/her la....

angel7030 SG

Nobody hurts you.

Only YOU can hurt yourself.

I guess a man like you will never understand a girl feeling and condition.

In our girl life, our youthful and enjoying life is shorter, tho we might live longer, we age faster and by 30yo, most of us are aunties while the guys are still having parties at nite places even above 40s.