i have been interested to all things related to korea since long
time ago...even before the kwave started. most my friends think i
am a follower but i started learning korean about 6 or 7 years
ago..i am now in jc but all my classmates feel i am very fake and
call me a wannabe or fake korean.. they also make fun of my korean
bf that i know online. i am able to read and understand all korean
but my speaking is not excellent..i know this guy from a forum for
korean in sg and he is a student.. i want to go to korea to live
with him but my father is very angry when he know about this.
now..even my mother don't give me allowance because they want me to
break up with my bf..and sent me to a couselling at a
hospital..zzz
Nothing wrong with having Korean BF or interested in a foreign
culture.
The problem is, you are rushing into a life long commitment.
Give the relationship another year or two.
When your parents see that bf is genuine and is a decent person,
they will eventually accept him.
You are not allowing nature to take its course, you are forcing
your parents to accept when they are not ready.
ALL parents want their children to enjoy A happy life.
If you are mature enough, you will take it easy and not be so
impatient like a little child.
To pacify your parents, u need to sit down and have a
conversation with them.
Tell them u understand they have your best interest in mind, and
to give them a peace of mind, you will give this relationship
one/two more years to be sure.
If they see you are able to handle the situation like a mature,
rational adult, they will eventually back off.
