I just met somebody online and after some chat, she ask me out.
She is china girl.
I am afraid tho. I hear a lot of scam story. What if she is out
for my money?
If I go out on a date with her then after that, on my way
go back home, what if she hire a few guys to kidnap me and
ask for ransom?
Or is she ask me to go back to her place, then go there I get
ambushed by some of her male friends to extort my money.
That is short run.
Long run - she could make a story about she needing money for
her business or need me to be her guarantor. If I hear all this
kind of thing then I better discontinue.
Ok maybe I am paranoid but all this scam stories from china
girls make me nervous about the date.
My question is:
1) What precaution should I take?
2) what will raise alarm bells in order to tell whether my
online date is genuine or just out to con me?
3) Is it safe to arrange to meet at a crowded public place such
as a restaurant or hawker center? When is it safe to go out to more
personal places like her home or watching movies with her?
4) I am afraid that she may have jealous ex-boyfriends who may
attack me.
You have four questions, and they can be solved with two
answers.
1. If she asks you for money, get out of there.
2. If she asks you for money, get out of there.
3. Always meet at a crowded public place.
4. Always meet at a crowded public place.
If I could ask you one question, then it would be this: if you
have so many doubts to begin with, is this girl even worth your
effort?
