My bf is 26 and I'm 23 this year. I'm still a virgin but he's
not, he had slept with 3 of his ex gfs before. We are really
different in our personalities, individual lives and the way we
were brought up. He also told me before that he was attacted to me
because I am everything he isn't. He was the bad boy when he was
younger (in the eyes of our families and our friends) but
thankfully for him, his family is quite well off, thus they sent
him to UK to do his A levels and degree. While I'm the goody girl
next door whom follows the nicely planned out route for me. I've
also met his family but he isn't ready to meet mine because he is
worried how they would judge his past. When his mum saw me, she
actually asked him if he was serious with me and told him not to
hurt him in any way.
We have been dating for 1 month, we are doing all fine and good. He
asked to make love nearly all the times we were on bed and we did
everything except sex already. I told him that I'm still not ready
and he's willingly to wait and didn't force me any further. But I
could tell that he really wants to make love together.
Anyway, he drove me to somewhere really romantic last night and we
started kissing, the mood was really right. After that, he wanted
to send me home but I wanted to sleep over at his place (I've been
staying over his place quite regularly already and he's staying
alone) He then told me that if we go to his place like that, we
would end up doing it. I didn't say anything and I just wanna spend
the whole night with him. I could really feel that this time the
mood was a little different and my hands are shivering. I guess I
was prepared already to give myself totally to him, and at the last
moment before he inserted into me, he turned away, laughed and said
'Now you're ready and I'm not.' He said he loves me too much and he
knows that I see virginity as smt very impt and he wants me sure
that he's worthy of it. Why didn't he want to do it with me when
he's been asking for it? I'm confused..
Just a bit off track.
Wolves are vicious and they attack and devour other weak animal
for breakfast. But they are known to recognise babies and adopt
them. Which means they are not that bad after all. Don't bet on it.
Wolves are wolves.
Your bf sees women as sluts, except his mother, grand mother,
aunties,and sisters, now include one more, you.
Don't fall for him, he wants you, like he wants his mother, pure
and chaste, stay at home, look after the family, while he goes out
as a predator looking out for sluts.
His mother knows his traits. That why the precaution.
You proved he could do it in about a month, which would be his
standard about women. He believes he can lay any women. Thats why
he didn't do it. There was no need, its not sex he want, he wants
victory, he won. To him going after sex is a game, to you sex is
something sacred. (I hope I am right about you, otherwise you
confirm his attitude towards women, and be No. 4)
Don't be hopeful about him. You love him and all else will be
fairy tale, is a pit fall many young girls like you fell into. Get
out while you are still intact. He is not a good catch.
Wolves are wolves.
