But it has been 7 days since the first date. I haven't contacted
her at all.
Do you think my opportunity has expired? I heard from somebody,
the general rule is 3 days after 1st date to make second
contact.
I am very distracted because I have another upcoming date
this weekend.
The dating agency is like pushing one date per week. I got to
tell them to slow down.
3 day rule ? Whoever gave u that was a bad dater
himself.
At the end of the first date, you should be asking if it's ok to
ask her out again. If she likes u, she will say ok . Then ask her
when is a good day to call. Respect the lady and let her
decide.
If she don't really care for the next date, it's time to bow
out. Graciously,Thank her for an awesome evening. Send her home if
she has no personal transport. Tell her she is most welcome to call
u if she need someone for a cup of coffee next time. But don't hold
your breath for her to call, if she does, it's a bonus, if not...it
shouldn't be a surprise.
Be a gentleman no matter the outcome. At the end of day, even if
things don't turn out as u like, at least you feel good about a
strong finish.