Hi, yesterday I and my fiance agreed to meet up with the wedding
videographer for discussion at 3pm. We agreed to meet at 2.45 pm
outside Guardian’s in Parkway Parade.
So I got ready and started waiting at the Guardian’s outside at
abt 2.44 pm.
I realised I have forgotten to take my hp with me but since the
shopping mall was not big, I thought I could easily catch sight of
my fiancee and furthermore we have agreed on the venue for
meeting.
As it was a Sunday, alot of people walking around and such. I
kept my eyes at the door and at the people to ‘catch’ my fiancee. I
waited until 3.15 pm plus still no sign of him. Feeling frustrated,
I was at a lost whether to continue waiting like an idiot standing
there with some sales person looking at me or to go home and take
my hp or find a public phone.
I decided to walk off still worrying what if my fiancee came
late and can’t find me.
I walked past a public phone and quickly made calls to him but
he did not answer. I rushed home and took my phone and called
him.
Then he said he already at Starbucks with the videographer. I
rushed down to parkway again, perspiring and my face black. When I
reached, they have finished discussing.
I was not feeling happy. My fiancee said don’t give him the
black look. I argued withhim why he didn’d bother to look for me
when I was waiting outside Guardian’s for a good 30 min plus. I
told him I called him by the public phone twice and he didn’t
answer and asked him to check got 2 ‘missed call’ or not.
He argued saying the phone number he did not recognise.
I stomped off feeling so angry. In the end I turned back
thinking nevermind, perhaps itis just a small matter.
Is it?
Isnt your fiancee the lease worried that he couldnt find you?
Since the supposed meeting time between you and him had passed. In
fact, he left you out of the discussion without your consent. If I
were you, i'd call off the wedding with him. From your story, it
looks like he doesnt give shit about you and doesnt respect
you.
