Abandoned by family what should i do

Impp SG

Good day everyone, i am writing this because i am at lost now.

I am a NSF(actually ord next week) so basically my pay is not very high. Alot of shit happen at home.. so basically i was told to leave the family and the family is leaving me to die already. I was told to leave the house at this date.. For what that happened at home, i think i need to leave for now.

So.. I will be homeless by next month. What should i do now. I am pennyless and homeless soon. But i have been actively sending out my resumes to find a job. I was suppose to study again on Aug but i have since withdrawn from my school. I currently holds a Diploma

Will writing to MP for assistance help? Or what should i do.

My life seems like ending when it has not even started.

FireIce SG

can share wats going on the family?

Impp SG

Basically it used to be like this,

It happened a few years ago. I recommended my friend to this person in a pub. (whatever they do later i got no idea, and i heard that my friend run away this person's money)

So finally this person is finding me because i recommend this friend to him. i have even make a police report but he has been threatening me since last month.

We moved out of the house because someone(idk is ahlong or bookie or whatever) might come and find trouble even though he is finding the wrong guy

So they are blaming me for these kind of trouble which i already explained to them it has nothing to do with me just that i know them before. And i already had some issues in camp with my superior who wants to charge me for everything.

it's very difficult to put into words. i hope you can understand.

mancha SG

Good day everyone, i am writing this because i am at lost now.

Will writing to MP for assistance help? Or what should i do.

My life seems like ending when it has not even started.

You are lucky.

You know before hand you are going to be homeless.

Use this luck to prepare yourself for ORD, instead of slapping your head and pulling your hair out. You are not a kid anymore, but you are behaving like a kid. Your parents provided you a home all your life. Now you must house yourself. That is your biggest concern. You are also without a job, that means no income. Together they make you frightened, and thinking about it, paralyse you. You must think about how to tackle it, instead of thinking how chia lat it is, and show sour face.

Before ORD see your superior, explain to them your situation, ASK FOR HELP DIRECTLY, don't have the "can help, help cannot help never mind" attitude. Ask them for help directly. If they cannot, ask them where you can get help, get them to refer you to some social help services, or even the MP (Member of Parliament, ah) not the Provost.

Once you got a place to stay, and a job to pay for that place, you can relax, and then slowly work to improve your life.

If you think like your life is ended. Then your face will look like a loser, and you will be treated like a loser, and you will be a loser. You will do things and end up at Changi Chalet.

Remember you are lucky, make full use of it.

jojobeach SG

Impp, something doesn't seem right with your story.

If u are not the one who borrowed money and refused to repay, that guy should not be coming after you for the bad debt.

If u recommend a bank to your friend. The bank cannot come after u, unless u are a co-sign or guarantor on the loan. In your case u arnt even there to see the transaction happen.

You should report to police. Give the police that guy's contact, let them go deal with him.

Also, you have no idea if it's true such loan exist.

Just because that guy claim so and so ran away with his money, does not mean you are responsible to pay off someone else's debt !!

How do u know the whole loan thing is not a SCAM???

I suggest u do not run away from your family just yet.

Perhaps u are being taken advantage of due to your ignorance and fear.

This guy threaten u, then stand up against him. He is nothing but a bully trying to scare the crap out of you.

You need to defend yourself.

He reminds me of school bullies picking on weaker kids to rob them of pocket money.

Summer hill SG

You go giant buy a tent, a air mattress and go sleep near a beach or somewhere isolated.

Dalforce 1941 SG

how about talking to your parents?

Y_Shun SG

sign on lor

free lodging, money, and food.

Dalforce 1941 SG

I am a NSF(actually ord next week) so basically my pay is not very high.

I think you can extend NS for up to 3 months.

troublemaker2005 SG

sign on free lodging and a job. that person find you report police. you know the person has his contact then call police and arraneg the guy to meet. he cum, police catch problem solve. in station the police squeeze hs balls only all the ifomration about his ginah gang leak like his mothers' pussy juice alreayd.

but really i don;t pity ignorant and silly people liem you. my parents are average people and their offspring me , at your age also not so gundu

dragg SG

frankly i find it hard to believe your parents will ask you to leave the house over something like that.

in a normal family parents dont chase their children out unless he or she has a big history of causing trouble.

mancha SG

TS has a problem, address the problem.

He can get help, sign on, or buy a tent.

speakoutfor SG

Believe that you are sugar coating your story. No parent would disown their own children unless they were forced to do so. Either you became a guarantor for Ah longs or you borrowed a lot of money from Ah longs, you unable to pay result in Ah longs coming to your house, vandalising the doors, painting the whole place red and embarassing your family with posters saying that their son owe them money.

So never borrow money from Ah longs for whatever reason because they are swindlers, they charge an unreasonable interest over what you borrow sometimes can be twice of what you borrow. Its tantamount to extortion.

You already sign your soul to the devil, moment you borrow money from Ah longs.

Settle your debt first then work out your problem with your family. Only way is the hard way. You got to work. Be a bus driver or something then maybe in 10 years you can pay your debt.

troublemaker2005 SG

another way, since you are really one big idiotic loser, you should engage police help, and go all teh way out to take out his ah long gang. or you can just fight your way through the ah long ranks. who knows kill off some of them probably do teh society some good, before you bleed and breathe your last. safe lost of taxpayers money having to feed you and the longs in jail. that's the least abd best you can do.

repay your errors, kill some ah longs, make sg a better place for the rest

camel SG

he may not be able to sign on as he wished, take a look at his reply to FireIce.

"So they are blaming me for these kind of trouble which i already explained to them it has nothing to do with me just that i know them before. And i already had some issues in camp with my superior who wants to charge me for everything."

Why would his superior in camp wants to charge him? He is hitting nails everywhere

troublemaker2005 SG

yep, gonna reply something like this. really reading such threads and in AA really piss me off. how can any parents bring up such a scum of the socitey?

really he should just go fight and kill some ah longs, that should serve some use to his life anf payback some for the society.

if all scums of teh society do this, ah longs will be ah gongs and our society will be a better palce to live in.

mancha SG

He can hit his superior officer, and get DB. Temporarily take care of his homeless problem.

jojobeach SG

Ah Longs r businessmen. They r illegal banks, and banks are legal Ah Longs.

When u borrow money from banks, u sign away collaterals. In promise u will pay back in a timely manner with interest.

When u borrow from Ah Longs, u give them promise to pay back with interest. But because u don't have assets collaterals to offer, Ah longs take higher risk so they charge higher interests rates... If u don't pay back, the collateral is harrasments and beatings.. Theses kind of practice is known to public.

A bank can recoup the money by selling your assets away.

If Ah longs let u get away with his money, he is a epic fail Ah Long. He can close shop.

A successful ah long is a vicious and harsh ah long. They are not stupid.

A lot of their business r through words of mouth. They need reference to stay in business.

No sense for Ah Long to go after a referer, like that who dares to recommend this Ah Long to anyone.

So dude, pay off your debt.. Don't run away. Work out a feasible payment scheme, even if u are just repaying interest.. Then slowly pay off principal.

angel7030 SG

Alternatively, you can buy a air ticket to india or china to be a FT there, or maybe your favorite thailand