I hate my mother!!

Summer hill SG

I do not really know you but here is my advice:

Hating your parents is not a solution. I know how you feel about your mother. But, please save your emotions. Save your emotions for someone who deserve.

If she keep coming back to "disturb" you and your family. Change the lock. Do not talk to her even when she talks to you. Just starring at her if you feel that she disturb you. Starring until she look away or go away. Some people messed up with their own minds that they are actually doing the right thing...

The final solution. Avoid her. This is not a good solution but this is a good way to show her that you know about her mistake. Further, if you are a cruel person as I am (in some way I can be cruel), send her money or any thing that related to money on her birthdays, to remind her about her mistake.

Some people can not understand that MONEY can not replace their own SOULS...

thank you. :)

mancha SG

You have to change the locks, and not let her into the house. Just changing the padlock of the grille will do.

If she keep on banging the door and make noise outside, call the police.

Don't let her take anything any more, and also lecture you.

Don't let her abnoxious behaviour influence you to becoming a ruined person.

You must know who you are, and be that best person, and not think of your mum, and become a bitter person. Understand.

daniel126 SG

You have to change the locks, and not let her into the house. Just changing the padlock of the grille will do.

If she keep on banging the door and make noise outside, call the police.

Don't let her take anything any more, and also lecture you.

Don't let her abnoxious behaviour influence you to becoming a ruined person.

You must know who you are, and be that best person, and not think of your mum, and become a bitter person. Understand.

Yeah mancha is right.

Please understand and support your father...

Please understand your mother. She suffered much than you think... She could live poorly when she was small and she thought that MONEY can solve "every" problems. I think that is not totally true.

speakoutfor SG

This is a problem with no solutions. Can't change who the mother is. Can't change daddy's situation. So how? Stuck.

angel7030 SG

Since no solution, leave this country and be gone for good, after all, beside a crazy mom, the society is also getting worst by the day...time to move on or move out.

mancha SG

This is a problem with no solutions. Can't change who the mother is. Can't change daddy's situation. So how? Stuck.

You can't change what has happened.

You can change your reaction to it.

speakoutfor SG

You can't change what has happened.

You can change your reaction to it.

Bingo ! Precisely !

angel7030 SG

Or, if you cannot change what is happening, then join and get along with it.

Like if your mom is crazy, you be more crazy than her, this is call mirror reflection therapy, once mom see you crazy, she see herself in you, she will stop disturbing you

Summer hill SG

Or, if you cannot change what is happening, then join and get along with it.

Like if your mom is crazy, you be more crazy than her, this is call mirror reflection therapy, once mom see you crazy, she see herself in you, she will stop disturbing you

i don't think that will work

angel7030 SG

It works on kid, why not, do you know that kids will absorb what you said when they find common ground, you see most adult also act like kids inorder to get their message and learning transmitted to them.

Same goes to your mother, she is like this, you act like her, then she can see for herself that her siao had make you more siao.

Stranger33 SG

Don’t lower down the standard of yours argue with this kind of people wait others said your dad never teach. It will make things worst. Divorce should be the parents issue not the child. Don’t pull yourself into the picture and feel bad about it.

You need to concentrate and do whatever you need to do. She will regret one day.
Please so blame it on the woman charter, it is the greed of human make it worst. I am also a divorcee but mine went through very well. No custody fight no maintenance fight however not everyone is that luckily that wife’s maintence only asked for a dollar.

My mum left me when I was young and I follwed my dad. 3 yrs back my dad passed away due to cancer. My mum and siblings go through lawyer and court just to get my dad’s business, asset and money. I was in the grief of losing my dad and I had to go to court like my second home. I decided to give up everything and get myself out of shit.

I always told my son whatever what adults do and decide, don’t interfer and do what he suspposed to do. You choose the kind of day you want to spend. Full of hatred or smiling

吃的苦中苦，方为人上人
I hope you understand what I mean and you are not the worst. When time are difficult everything is possible and when being strong is the only choice then nothing will fail you.

lce SG

I always told my son whatever what adults do and decide, don’t interfer and do what he suspposed to do. You choose the kind of day you want to spend. Full of hatred or smiling

empty talk is cheap

Stranger33 SG

I agreed empty talk is cheap not only that even talk is also cheap. It is truth that no point spending too much time on someone that not worthwhile. Time wait for no man if continue to "entertain" this kind of people is simply waste of time but of cos it doesn't mean that it given chance to show disrespect. Originally posted by lce:

empty talk is cheap

lce SG

empty talk is cheap

"I always told my son whatever what adults do and decide, don’t interfer and do what he suspposed to do. You choose the kind of day you want to spend. Full of hatred or smiling"

r yr children not affected by yr actions?

吃的苦中苦，方为人上人

how much 苦中苦可为人上人?

Stranger33 SG

Children are not susposed to interfer in adult things as they may not understand what is going on and easy being mislead by either party. In this case Father should jump in and explain but not adding fuel to fire. How much 苦中苦 is up to Individual how you manage it? Successful doesn't come over night if this bit of issue can make you shity then what's next for you. You can't choose your parents but you choose the life you want. How much the children being affected is depends on upbring. Now may feel that life is 苦 but if know how to 苦中做乐 then anything will be easier to handle than self pity. Originally posted by lce:

"I always told my son whatever what adults do and decide, don’t interfer and do what he suspposed to do. You choose the kind of day you want to spend. Full of hatred or smiling"

r yr children not affected by yr actions?

吃的苦中苦，方为人上人

how much 苦中苦可为人上人?

lce SG

"I always told my son whatever what adults do and decide, don’t interfer and do what he suspposed to do. You choose the kind of day you want to spend. Full of hatred or smiling"

r yr children not affected by yr actions?

吃的苦中苦，方为人上人

how much 苦中苦可为人上人?

"Children are not susposed to interfer in adult things"

is tis a law of nature or otherwise? n u r able to control their thinking?

"How much 苦中苦 is up to Individual how you manage it?"

perhaps u can tell 老天 on how much 苦 to allocate to u for yr acceptance Laughing

You can't choose your parents but you choose the life you want.

人在江湖身不由己

"苦中做乐"

乐 comes from the 心. wen there is 心 there is 希望

世上无难事只怕有心人

speakoutfor SG

Takes two hands to clap.

But two want to punch each other.

So is there going to solve amicably?

No.

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