subject:Used to it? I don;t think so. SO you re telling us when
all your friends around you are married and settle down - just you
are the only person around - you don't feel lonely?
ans:yes,im used to it.most of friends are married since army
days and quite a few up till now have no kids.more than half of
them are not having any kids.because unlike u who hail from
malaysia.u have abundance of places and opportunities in malaysia
etc from land price,cheap housing for malaysians as compared to
foreign property would be owners,cheaper food and cheaper cars.the
living and bringing up of kids in spore is rather
unhealthy nowadays and the food is not exactly good.
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subject:You call up your friend and ask him out for a movie or
golf - he say he is not free because his girlfriend or wife wants
him to take her out, do house work or feed the baby.
ans:yes,i dont call them after they get married unless they call
me or when they r on the internet while they are
umm........"working".
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subject:So you continue to do things you like to drown out the
loneliness - like coming to this forum/playing with gundam toys?
watching movies? drowning in work
ans:i dont really find friends good to talk to as its kinda
boring from start.so i go for hobbies like work,gundam and other
experiments which are interesting,fascinating and incredible.thats
enough to keep u occupied all day 24 hrs 7 days a week.
u should try it one day if u have nothing else better to do.
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1) No. You are so wrong. Malaysia is one of the toughest place if
not toughest, most likely second to Singapore. Remember - most
malaysian chinese women bare many similarities to Singaporean
girls.
Cheap housing? No longer. Even houses here cost millions. Salary
is crap compared to yours. We cannot increase wages because we are
still low skill society. Cost is going up. Bringing up kids here is
horrible because the education system is shit. The education has
been lowered to help the majority increase their passing rate. This
is why more and more chinese are migrating overseas.
2) Easy to find life partner? Wrong again. Our chinese
population is only 5.5 million compared to singapore population of
5 million. Worse still - we chinese are spread all over the country
unlike you all - you all are in one tiny space.
Inter-racial marriage? Bad. Very few chinese guys want to marry
indians. Marry malay? Bad because many chinese don't want to change
religion to muslim and living malay life is boring because they
don't drink alcohol, now entertaiment - no cinema, shopping is
boring.
Chinese girls in malaysia are becoming more harder to please -
more materialistic. Although maybe not as difficult as singaporean
women.
3) No. I want to try finding. I want to keep on searching.
After searching - I can have all the time in the world to play
with my gundam toys.
