I think so too. But Samuel is now telling the 3 year old twins that
mummy is trying ot seperate them from their papa. Psychologically
it is creating lots of insecurity for the children. She suspects he
doesn't want a divorce because he is comfortable having the
networking and family connections of her family, by staying married
to her. But she is at a quandry because having the twins means
somehow having to always deal with him unless she get complete
custody, which is why her parents wants to pay him off. In fact he
rparent shave even suggested leaving the kids to him if he so
desires, so tha tshe can have a clean slate, in life. But she is
unable t do so-maternal instincts I suppose.
If Samuel is doing such tricks on the kids, it reflects clearly
what a manipulative person he is. Based on that trait alone, I
think the person is not trustworthy. If you factor in the fact
that he is fooling around with so many girls, then very
clearly he has no regards to the wife. Lying becomes second nature
to him. If despite all these clear signs of a liar and still
want to trust him, then I say all the best lah.
As for the kids, I think it depends on individual. There is no
right or wrong answer on this. Having a clean slate may end up
being the right option. Taking custody of the kids may also be the
right option. Only time will tell which choice is right.
However, what is true is that most men don't really like to go
for a woman who already have kids. Don't ask me why but it's just
that, so that may be a barrier to dating.
